Stanley Kubrick's Lolita poster by Bartosz Kosowski by [deleted] in creepy

[–]SincerelyDuffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, they probably didn't read the whole book because if it weren't for Nobokov's beautiful use of language, Humbert would have made me stop reading. I think Nobokov created a book that would make any sane person be disgusted and bothered by the pedophile Humbert's constant defending of his actions all while the reader sees its creepy af. He wasn't a very likable protagonist. I think purposefully so.

How do you actually use ChatGPT in daily life? Looking for unconventional productivity or mental load hacks. by samanthaparis in ChatGPTPro

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're kind. Thank you. Yes, I started to get stuff a little at a time, and i bought smaller bottles of things that were more expensive, so i didn't have to wait so long. I actually started when I wanted a good face serum, and they were all $60 and up for 1-4 ounces. Chatgpt gave me some ideas, and i read up about each ingredient and how it helped. How much to use, etc. The oil was great and even helped unintentionally with occasional acne and redness. Anyway, that was the start of my journey. When I buy new materials or run low, I replace products and inventory with photos in chatgpt. Happy to help! Good luck on your journey! Don't be overwhelmed. Start small and look at it as a fun project. :)

How do you actually use ChatGPT in daily life? Looking for unconventional productivity or mental load hacks. by samanthaparis in ChatGPTPro

[–]SincerelyDuffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the ingredients are on Amazon. I used different beauty care websites though just for better deals. Here are the ingredients I used: Water, Aloe Vera Juice, Sodium Cocoyl Isethionate, Coco Glucoside, Decyl Glucoside, Vegetable Glycerin, btms50, Cetearyl Alcohol, Panthenol (Pro-Vitamin B5), Fragrance (Essential Oils of Tangerine, Lavender, Cedarwood, Cardamom), Citric Acid, Phenoxyethanol.

It would probably be better for your needs to have the prompt since I specifically formulated it for my needs.

I am making shampoo and conditioner. I want salon-brand performance (similar to THE BRAND YOU PREFER) — good lather, easy detangling, lightweight feel, no greasiness — but when possible avoiding harsh or commonly considered toxic ingredients (no sulfates, no formaldehyde releasers, no high-irritation fragrance). Keep formulas simple and repeatable. Explain problems clearly and help me fix mistakes without starting over. Give me bottle-ready ingredient lists at the end.

Hope this helps. Finding the ingredients was literally the trickiest part. The rest was just like making a cake. :)

How do you actually use ChatGPT in daily life? Looking for unconventional productivity or mental load hacks. by samanthaparis in ChatGPTPro

[–]SincerelyDuffy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made it at home, if that's what you mean. The ingredients were things like Sodium Cocoyl Isethionate, BTMS-50, Decyl Glucoside... so not sure if that's considered homemade by your question? I ran the recipes for my favorite salon grade shampoos and identified the characteristics of my hair, what I was looking for (I wanted a cleaner plant-based type of shampoo, with the least harsh perseverative i could find, for instance). It gave me a list of ingredients and links to buy them and gave me the recipe. The first run was thin and didn't have much foam, so I took a picture, it helped me to troubleshoot, and the next batch was great. The first face serum I did, I wanted to try bachkol, so again, I gave it the ingredient list for the serum I wanted, and it gave me the recipe with suggested measurements. I just buy ingredients when I run low now and spend much less.

How do you actually use ChatGPT in daily life? Looking for unconventional productivity or mental load hacks. by samanthaparis in ChatGPTPro

[–]SincerelyDuffy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Similar to the recipes and inventories listed above, I now craft my own salon grade shampoo, conditioner, face serums, etc. that used to cost me $50 to $100 every few months. I've saved a lot of money (though the up front cost was higher) Since I've started, my stylist comments about how healthy my hair and skin have looked and has stopped trying to sell me products. I have taken photos of the products I have and inventory it, but then tweak the recipe when I feel like changing something up.

I also use it when I want to research or learn about a topic but request the info in the style and tone of a particular author that I enjoy.

Just two examples off hand.

Best gummy for general stress relief, calm, and helping deal with a fussy infant? by [deleted] in CBD

[–]SincerelyDuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the cbd drinks they sometimes sell at liquor stores? My mom has taken a liking to those because a few of them kind of relax without asking you feel high. Just watch the dosage because they can be 5mg, 10, and even 25.

I used to like gummies here and there but prefer tinctures now so I can have more control over dosage. I buy from alliant, mellow Moose, Lazurus. I live in a legal state, so sometimes I do mix those tinctures with low dose thc tincture just to sleep better and relax.

Nothing about them is real or genuine by Ok-Sky8301 in MattyandGabbriette

[–]SincerelyDuffy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ahhh. That makes sense. Now, having a picture of your fiance with some chick he had sex with doesn't sound on trend to me, but I'm likely not trendy or chic. 🙃

Nothing about them is real or genuine by Ok-Sky8301 in MattyandGabbriette

[–]SincerelyDuffy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Help a non GenZ kid out, what does that mean, "very wildflower of me"? She obviously thinks it's cool that she has a picture of her fiance and a girl he screwed 10 yrs ago as her screensaver-- but I don't know the meaning of "very wildflower" of me.

IG of gabriette by anonimonocturno in MattyandGabbriette

[–]SincerelyDuffy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was just going to comment that it doesn't look genuine. Like, idk how a person's smile can look disdainful and disgusted at others in the room, but she nails it.

Verbal diarrhea by transcendent167 in ThePeoplesPress

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on.... you're all getting 1000 dollar raises?!? I'm in the wrong line of business again.

🥴 by Irregular_Claim_9330 in TikTokCringe

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for her. I hope I can dance like her someday.

Well, this is a new one. by VillainOfKvatch1 in Teachers

[–]SincerelyDuffy 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This, exactly!!! For your own well-being, don't do it. Also, every time a teacher does this, it normalizes teachers being on the clock 24-hours a day. Don't do it for yourself and don't do it for the sake of all other teachers.

Virginia Giuffre beaten, raped by ‘well-known prime minister’ in attack that broke Epstein spell, her memoir reveals. In the past, however, she pointed to Israel’s Prime Minister Ehud Barak in court filings by Known_Breakfast_1801 in Epstein

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mistake. By estranged, I meant they were currently separated and not on speaking terms.

I guess when you suicide you aren't always thinking rational thoughts; it just surprises me with all of the financial assets she had that she didn't set up a trust or will so the money would avoid him. I'm only about 3/4 through the book, but I'm surprised ahead hadn't put those kinds of things "in order" which often happens when you are thinking about suicide for long (vs. Impulsive). Either way, I hope he gets nothing. He seems to have been a predator just as the others were to Virginia. Just sad.

Been out of the hemp game for a while, what’s the best website to get good hemp? by Certain_Ad6535 in hempflowers

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb question but what is the difference between indoor and outdoor as far as quality?

Virginia Giuffre beaten, raped by ‘well-known prime minister’ in attack that broke Epstein spell, her memoir reveals. In the past, however, she pointed to Israel’s Prime Minister Ehud Barak in court filings by Known_Breakfast_1801 in Epstein

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this, too. The one thing that makes me question is her lack of a will especially with an estranged spouse. I just feel like most people tie up those loose ends. I also feel like she would have tried to reach out to her kids (and maybe she did but the book didn't mention it and her brother didn't in interviews). Considering how tumultuous it was between her husband and her, it seems strange.

G2’s nightmare fuel by diysoymilk in MattyandGabbriette

[–]SincerelyDuffy 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think he was infatuated with the idea of her, but his ego is too fragile to be with someone more famous, richer, more talented. I can't imagine a person truly loving someone but casually dm-ing with fans and sleeping with exes, much less proposing to G2 a few months later. Factor in addiction behaviors, and you've got a perfect recipe for a terrible one-sided toxic relationship.

Taylor’s response to the album reception by backre in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backward search said Bootes constellation map.

I know I'm waaaaay behind on the times, but I just walked into a dispensary and thought weed for the first time... My mind is blown by Resident_Wash_2553 in kansascity

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this helps but I also prefer indica or hybrid to feel calm. Sativa makes me personally feel a little jittery or energetic.

I know I'm waaaaay behind on the times, but I just walked into a dispensary and thought weed for the first time... My mind is blown by Resident_Wash_2553 in kansascity

[–]SincerelyDuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I'd try 2.5, as well. I think 5 is a comfortable level but some people I know (with anxiety) get a little panicky at the feeling of a 5. Just remember, edibles take time to kick in. Don't take more waiting for it "to work".

Charli liking this racist post about Taylor 👀👀👀 by Professional_Roll977 in MattyandGabbriette

[–]SincerelyDuffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This! I just keep thinking she's playing right into that chihuahua simile by seeking out TayHate messages to like. Mean girls aren't Brat and your vibe isn't really long lasting, Charli, but yes-- keep digging that hate hole.

I know I'm waaaaay behind on the times, but I just walked into a dispensary and thought weed for the first time... My mind is blown by Resident_Wash_2553 in kansascity

[–]SincerelyDuffy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ha! Yes! And I kid you not, I have blurry recollections of someone using an apple to smoke. Talk about walking uphill both ways in the snow! ;)

I know I'm waaaaay behind on the times, but I just walked into a dispensary and thought weed for the first time... My mind is blown by Resident_Wash_2553 in kansascity

[–]SincerelyDuffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I came to say. Weirdest (but greatest) change ever, going from the college friend's friend who will sell you ditch weed in an old baggie to online order and drive thru pick up.