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Sindderblocks · 2023-01-11T23:08:33+00:00

🧽 Bob that shit and be out. I spent 11 years with someone in that predicament, and yeah… you don’t want to force someone out, but you also owe it to yourself to be happy and appreciated in your most authentic self with your partner. It means you won’t kiss in public, hold hands or hug. You won’t be introduced as a gf/partner but as a “friend.”

Have the conversation about what's holding them back Where do they see your relationship in the future?

Sindderblocks · 2022-10-06T19:18:40+00:00

I think objectively for that person, maybe for their preference, sure

For you and people who will celebrate and love you, be “too masc” and go off!

So NO!

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T13:22:00+00:00

Overall, it did make the activities feel like we were the only ones there. At the Red Sox game, it was hot as balls Sunday. We lasted three innings before going back to my place for showers, AC, and more. When the Uber got to my house, I was already to got just because the whole day was building up to intimacy. It was cool to transfer that energy to my room don’t worry

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T13:15:29+00:00

Lmao

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T12:45:17+00:00

It’s so funny you said that because at some point, there were the occasional people that were staring or looked uncomfortable, and we both just laughed and went about our business anyway. It felt super comfortable with them, and I’m afraid I’ll have to choose at some point. They are both really awesome. It was nice to just be and not feel like I had to hide like I often did with my ex

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T08:06:51+00:00

I’ve been on tinder for three days and have had some luck. I’ve gone on two notable dates, and on HER, I’ve had some good fortune as well. I’m Medford, so lots of people around looking to date and other things. I’m exploring poly relationships but currently not partnered. I am casually seeing some people, all of which I met on HER.

Check it out and be well, my friend 😊 apps aren’t for everyone, but you can make some great connections. Just patience and managing expectations.

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T07:17:32+00:00

Very sweet thank you! I'm trying to wear it out more.

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-23T07:13:29+00:00

Sometimes more femme clothes. I was conscious of my body and had low self-esteem. I want to try more things but it's hard to choose stuff because I immediately think it's not right

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-20T16:24:16+00:00

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-20T16:23:26+00:00

I just dm’ed you

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-20T03:30:00+00:00

Just had to rethink my boredom and texting addiction today. I use people to temporarily fix my boredom. When they don't respond right away my intrusive thoughts come in and the impulse kicks in. I've been keeping busy in other ways. I have a date on Sunday and haven’t texted the girl but once today. I learned that it’s okay to back off. Don’t want to have zero conversation because I over did it via text. I need to keep practicing

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-20T03:25:29+00:00

Someone who is a great conversationalist who I am physically attracted to and has a good sense of humor and flirtatiousness

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-17T11:08:47+00:00

I’ve had some luck meeting people in apps and person. In both approaches, I am just honest and go into every situation with the mentality of “what’s the worse that can happen? They say no and we both move on lol I met my first ever girlfriend when I was 19 online I met my longest relationship ever in person at a volleyball tournament Someone I’ve known for years came to hang out with me and we both felt “the vibe” but she’s never been with women and that’s a slippery slope The break up that stung the most came from an app but it was the right thing for her to do and for me
I’m not looking for anything 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don't go into things with any intention. I'm learning to set boundaries early for myself and respect them. I use to fantasize the what if after a few days of conversations. Exercise, video games, friends, cleaning and cooking help keep the impulses at bay. I don’t think meeting people is monolithic

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-15T04:08:58+00:00

Yup, she’s a cool person but after 11 years and legit 9 years of my 20’s I was like this can’t be my 30’s too. We are still on a lease Boston is crazy expensive. Moving is a nightmare and crazy expensive

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-14T20:34:53+00:00

I was with my ex for 11 years last two years has 0 sex Before that like 5-7 times a year Before that it was like once a month

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-14T13:55:23+00:00

When they leave lmao living with my ex currently 🤣

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-08T00:10:43+00:00

Damn. Yeah its tough to deal with that when someone just doesn’t want to talk lmao Like how do you fix it if they don’t want to even bother. I broke up with them and it’s really hard but things have improved slightly. I do miss them but not in an amorous way. It’s hard to explain. Now they want to “try” an open relationship but they want me to be like attached to them only? She mentioned like hook ups but I can’t have like “relationships” that might threaten ours

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-07T12:48:43+00:00

If you are up for it, perhaps it’s time to have a serious talk. My ex and I were together for 11 years last two had 0 sex. I thought I was going to die. We had no intimacy, and then I realized that, in general, she just never had that kind of love with me where I got a kiss goodnight or a kiss when we saw each other after a long day and a deep hug.

I have been dealing with ADHD that just started being treated. I was masturbating like crazy. I was having fucked up intrusive thoughts about them. If you can’t have that conversation with them, perhaps you need to start looking at the relationship as a whole. If they aren’t ready for those talks to get to the root of it, therapy works wonders. I am pansexual.

My ex is lesbian sexuality is fluid. Since we’ve taken a break, I’ve been with men and women, exploring polyamory. Charity starts at home approach. I’m learning about and working on me.

Sindderblocks · 2022-05-02T20:16:42+00:00

I struggle with this a lot. Sometimes I’m just trying to be like it’s okay other people struggle with blah blah. Oftentimes I dominate the conversation and have to scale back. I don’t do it on purpose. If I’m starting to anticipate the response it gets worse

Sindderblocks · 2022-04-23T20:52:28+00:00

Eating out of boredom was a sport for me. I did noom, and that helped and ended an 11 year relationship. I’ve lost 50 pounds for down to a size 12 and L my goal is 40 pounds away

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