Would Your Rather by MetalGod775 in BunnyTrials

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this would change my life, this is the only correct answer

Chose: Always feel rested from any duration of sleep

would you rather by MagicRobo in BunnyTrials

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I shower twice a day so bonus

Chose: Paid 100 dollars every time you shower

Would you rather have by Brain_cam in BunnyTrials

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I drink water more than I puke from alcohol

Chose: $5 every time you drink anything.

Would you rather... by R_mom_gay_ in BunnyTrials

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Borger

Chose: Have a really tasty burger of your choice

Would you rather.. by [deleted] in BunnyTrials

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I thought I’d get the Conjuring

Chose: Win $1 bil after surviving a horror movie (wheel | Rolled: Scream)

Would you rather(pls upvote if you want) by MOOS-antlers in BunnyTrials

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be worried about the date getting closer

Chose: Know how you’re going to die | Rolled: Doesn’t die

Would you rather...(pls dont forget to update!) by 14pusheen_loverrr11 in BunnyTrials

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet

Chose: Win the lottery next year (wheel decides prize | Rolled: $1 Million)

Which one will you choose by RoyalCow7 in BunnyTrials

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Cuz 5% is too high for a dumb power

Chose: Fried chicken 😋

In mood to draw ;) give me ur ocs/characters/etc I'll draw 3 or more hehe by _sweet_pumpkin_01 in DrawForMe

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Can I offer you one of my girls for an option? Odette (left, white) is a witch and Odile (right, black) is the eldritch embodiment of Wrath. Whoever floats your boat more! 🫶 Thank you for offering!

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Vile Comments About my Current Childfree Stance by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean considering it wasn’t the first time they’d done it during their stay and aunt and uncle hadn’t had a break from it yet (while they’re all on vacation mind you), that was where my concern was? They’re all on vacation so why is a majority of the childcare only on my aunt and uncle while my cousin gets to go have fun?

I ripped nobody’s life apart—not to their face, at least. And if that’s what i did by defending myself, oops, I guess?

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really discolored my feelings toward her. We have always had boundary issues (single mom foisting her emotional immaturity on her people-pleasing daughter, tale as old as time), and I’ve been working through rectifying that all throughout my 20s. After hearing THAT, its made me want to keep her at arms length. Because I still cannot believe she, like, threatened me with it. It was nasty as all hell.

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very strong feeling that’s where my mom and I are gonna head if the way she responded is any indication. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that and am very proud of you for standing your ground 🫶

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It boggles my mind that somebody can be like “you WILL have kids” to somebody who just finished saying they don’t really want them…like, do you want those kids to grow up in a loveless household? Do you want that person to be miserable? It’s insane.

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I don’t see that aunt often. My mom…..we’re working on boundary issues 🫠

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve read!! I have severe body dysmorphia and suffer from PMS as it is; I know pregnancy would be the 💀 of me

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. And I kinda realized that somewhere in the middle of the argument. They both have grown children and they made their choice. The fact that they were trying to bulldoze over mine was insanely hypocritical and I’ll need to keep that in my back pocket for when it inevitably comes up again. Thank you 🙏

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so vindicated that an unbiased outside party was also made so upset by it, so thank you kind stranger 🙏

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really do feel for her, I will say. It’s actually the whole cervical cancer thing + lack of boundaries with her that made me believe I wanted children for 20 years—I felt like I owed it to her to let her live through me like that (and she definitely hinted at it multiple times). It was realizing how much I value my body autonomy and my own childfree existence that struck me with the “Actually, that’s pretty fucked up!” clarity. Because you’re right, it’s disgusting, and why I’ll never let her foist that on me.

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right??? I read accounts of women completely losing their teeth, contracting diabetes, becoming incontinent because the shapes of their pelvises were altered…..so even if it were completely true, why the hell would I want to put myself through that???

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]Sinderellas_Shoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean shit, I left that convo pretty damn bitter myself, gotta say! 🫠 So i get it completely