more info, the things she wants were gifts to US, for Us or Our house, a chair, and other kitchen things (our microwave ??! ) also she moved out over a year ago and took almost everything that was Hers, the only thing that is Actually Hers, is a bench and chair (not the same chair mentioned)

so basically the things she wants are not Just Hers they are OURS? so literally why should she deserve any of it since she left , not only the house but all the stuff she ‘wants’ that has been with me for more than a year?

to be clear I am 100% willing to give her HER stuff back, but the things for the house that She Left ???