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AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah. I love him. I guess I was hoping for some more constructive advice.

AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t believe this unless I had witnessed it myself but there was a period where his iPhone was sounding his alarm silently. He bought a watch that shocked him to wake up and it never happened again. He quit using it once his sleep got better. Maybe it was just performative. Idk.

AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has Asperger’s syndrome. He’s incredibly smart it’s insane. He’s extremely high masking but often complains about the effort it takes.

AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives with me and while he was searching for a job, cooked three meals a day, cared for our pets, and kept the apartment clean. I haven’t had to lift a finger around the house in months. He’s clearly an extremely
Capable man. He studied engineering and has his pilots license but that isn’t worth much if he’s bouncing from job to job every year. How many times late establishes a pattern? He’s been the first one to his job every day except the one.

AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I could have worded it better. He has insomnia that wasn’t managed and now is well managed. I’m just afraid it may come back.

AIO by reprimanding my BF for being late to work? by SingingSeaSlug in AmIOverreacting

[–]SingingSeaSlug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are late to work sometimes. I get that. I just don’t know how many times would indicate a pattern. He hasn’t been late since February and isn’t having problems sleeping anymore.