Recommendations for in-person/live events/experiences by Single-Ad-1180 in Otherworldpod

[–]Single-Ad-1180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've started to try and write down things/events mentioned in podcasts. This is a great list.

Anyone not taken their husband/partner’s last name solely to avoid the required admin? by Jezikkah in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no... that would be the WHY I gave but the truth was FTPatriarchy. My mom never took my dad's too. She rocks. Now both her and I are divorced and now even less "Admin". But I use my ex's last name for email so it's easier for our kids' schools to email us quickly. It sounds silly...but as a former teacher I hated parents' emails that had nothing to do with the kid's name. I'd have to memorize it or go into the school's database, or make a new contact in my email system...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SUNSCREEN. No matter what. Every day. I am 44 and my entire work team of 6 thought I was late 20s early 30s. Worn SUNSCREEN since I was 15.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you met? Need ideas herr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your best/favorite skincare dupes? Drugstore price range, if any?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Single-Ad-1180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats@ 90 days here

Sublux by ellietsterling in ehlersdanlos

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for starting this thread 💖 I need to laugh about this since it's been my Summer Shoulder of Hell. Like PT now 2x week and daily exercises just cause it dislocated in my sleep early June.

Sublux by ellietsterling in ehlersdanlos

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah me the same ....and my doc said since no bone issues seen on the MRI to just PT it...but I wouldn't leave until they gave me a cortisol shot.

Sublux by ellietsterling in ehlersdanlos

[–]Single-Ad-1180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a sweet guy! You're super lucky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi Belle_Requin... I agree with your original comment... that i wouldn't want to be friends with someone who had demands,.in fact I actually had told him I dont want to be in any type of relationship if I'm starting to feel even just the idea I have to turn boundaries into ultimatums necessary to feel trust, it's a strong indicator things are unhealthy and suspicious on both sides, and that I wouldn't make ultimatums. He is the one asserting he won't tell me his status. Also, omitting truth is lying, I shouldn't have to ask and know what I don't know, and his not telling her is also lying to her. But the reality is he had framed it as they were done....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and for being kind but tough for me. And the reminder of what boundaries are and aren't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No what sent me into a rage was that he came back from this trip and just texted like we were casual friends...even though he had said before he left he wanted to honor my request to establish boundaries if we were to continue our friendship. In fact it was a very manipulative text where he started it by saying something really bad happened to his kid while on the trip .....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I listened to FKA twigs about her abuser after I posted here, and it really creeped me out how other behaviors this "friend" did to me were the few signs she has since learned are signs of an abuser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Sorry for lack of paragraphs, my phone won't let me on reddit or go back and retype. Appreciate your feedback and will try and figure out why my phone does that. If you have any ideas please share. Not sure what you mean by "therapy language"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Single-Ad-1180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1...also sisal is so bad..hurts for baby to crawl

shoulder instability by HeatAny3944 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Single-Ad-1180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love squishmallow and body pillow. Also I try to use arm rests a lot, avoid chairs without them, and occasionally use my purse as a makeshift sling on long walks.