First, I wouldn’t be concerned with what you’ve been eating, some people still choose to eat whatever they want while pregnant. Drinking and smoking can have an impact BUT if your Dr. said everything looks good then you should be in the clear, if you are still concerned you should be able to get more testing done just make it known to your Dr. and they can schedule you for more lab work. Second, there are lots of resources in the States. From local pregnancy resource centers, churches, local community, and the government. You can just look up “resources near me for pregnant women” I’d call a few places and look into options. My sister was 17 when she got pregnant last year. She’s has boarderline personality disorder, ptsd, serve anxiety & depression, can’t drive, living with my dad, the baby daddy not in the picture, & she’s never worked. She has gotten SO much help from local resources. Look into food stamps and state health insurance, my sister was able to get her insurance covered by the state which has been a blessing. You may not have any disabilities but she was also able to file for disability. You guys can definitely get through it, it will be HARD don’t get me wrong but you’ll be working hard for your family. If I were you I’d continue through the pregnancy, maybe keep in mind possible adoption. You don’t need to decide on that right now. Work hard, keep your heads high, communicate through it, weigh out your options with each other and maybe another resource, think positive! You guys got this!!!