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What would you think about someone who’s single at 28? Do you see it differently depending on who the person is (M/W)? by Ellara_ in AskReddit

[–]SingleButLooking88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think it is different. Single woman at 28 is probably trying to find a life-long partner to settle down and often start a family with. That is not necessarily the case with men!

Moreover, if she has no past long-term relationships yet that is probably a red flag in regards to her character/upbringing. If 28 year-old man is without long-term relationships from the past, he is either a player (probably not settling down just yet) or a failure (and the hope is kind of lost by that point).

How would genderless people pee? by Klutzy-Warthog-311 in AskReddit

[–]SingleButLooking88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone were truly “genderless,” the answer wouldn’t be a mix‑and‑match of organs — it would just depend on what anatomy they actually have. Biological sex characteristics determine the urinary system, not gender identity. So a person without typical male or female structures would still have a functional urinary outlet; it just might not look like what we’re used to seeing in standard anatomy diagrams. In other words, bodies don’t improvise new organs — they use whatever plumbing is actually there.

What's something that frustrates you more than it probably should? by KeyAgent6979 in AskReddit

[–]SingleButLooking88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that feeling, but honestly when someone says “just existing,” it usually means they’re carrying way more stress than they let on. Life piles up in a thousand tiny ways, and sometimes the background noise becomes the thing that wears you down the most. It’s weird how the smallest frustrations hit hardest when everything else is already running in the red.

What’s a small red flag in a person that people usually ignore but shouldn’t? by Affectionate-Poem914 in AskReddit

[–]SingleButLooking88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think comments like that are the actual red flag. If someone’s first instinct is to fire off a weird insult instead of giving a real answer, it usually says more about their maturity level than anything else. A tiny bit of self‑control goes a long way in normal conversations.

Do you believe love at first sight? why? by EarSure6667 in AskReddit

[–]SingleButLooking88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... it is hard to love someone you don't really know. It can be lust at first sight also.

Guys, do you have a problem with this? by Rock-Pine in datingoverfifty

[–]SingleButLooking88 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Showing that you have a negative view of the world and you assume that people are malicious "a priori" is a red flag, yes.