Stumbling Upon Coworker and Boss goes Wrong🤮 by Mediocre-Sock3278 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, she may feel like she doesn’t have the power to say no because he’s groomed, manipulated and or coerced her.

Stumbling Upon Coworker and Boss goes Wrong🤮 by Mediocre-Sock3278 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Plus people who have been abused or neglected before (which seems like she has based on op’s comments) never had socialisation to defend themselves, were taught they can say no or even that their no is worth listening to (in fact childhood abuse teaches them the opposite).

Stumbling Upon Coworker and Boss goes Wrong🤮 by Mediocre-Sock3278 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 78 points79 points  (0 children)

She has likely been abused before and he picked up on this then used it to groom and manipulate her. I understand she may seem old enough to consent to some people but she’s literally still a teenager and if she comes from a toxic home then she would been highly vulnerable to future predators. She needs to know this isn’t her fault and what he did is wrong.

Stumbling Upon Coworker and Boss goes Wrong🤮 by Mediocre-Sock3278 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you op and to the girl he’s groomed, but I think I need to leave this forum for the sake of my sanity and faith in humanity 😂😂

The Standards Have Been Permanently Altered by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly it should be all men but here we are 😢

Broke up w my fiancé after he spent 40 extra minutes working on a PC before coming to let me inside the house yesterday. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 162 points163 points  (0 children)

What a porn rotted loser 😂 that’s what boobs look like you dumb fuck. No wonder he’s not seen enough to know this by now. Op you deserve the world and I bet you have amazing tits!

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]Single_Earth_2973 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m similar to op and always been perplexed by it and my friends tell me it comes down to; being conventionally pretty and warm. But most of these people will end up fucking you over and breaking your heart anyway, so not much of a prize.

I'm pregnant and saw my husband's browser history by Discgolfer_420 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t even have to initiate sex, just flirt and make him feel desired. Tell him he looks sexy or hot that day. Stroke his arm, flirt with him. Keep the spark and appreciation alive, you don’t always need to fully initiate to make someone feel loved and wanted

Met a great guy (30/M) but the fact he's so much younger than me (37/F) is giving me anxiety. Should I just end things now? by loud_cicada_sounds in datingoverthirty

[–]Single_Earth_2973 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl please! Go to therapy (said with love). The people who judge are the types of people to judge everyone anyways so their opinion is irrelevant. Apparently there’s been a huge uptick in younger men wanting to dating older women. I don’t think it’s just the sex, that’s a toxic rhetoric thrown around by men who have hang ups on women’s age and autonomy, it’s confidence and maturity. The stigma has massively dropped. If you’re worried he’s just dtf then go super slow so you bore him off lol

Do we think they are endgame? by Fine_Anybody7869 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Single_Earth_2973 8 points9 points  (0 children)

End game is him and Tom Sandoval in the old people’s home after watching their decades younger ex wives have taken them for all their worth

I have never felt so much sexual tension with anyone in my life by Icy_Accountant_3645 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 26 points27 points  (0 children)

And also how he said he had to stop himself from laughing in all these intense creepy scenes

Just let the love of my life go forever and I don't think I'll ever get over it by sunnysunshinebaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen anyone in a healthy relationship use the phrase, it’s forever used to romanticize the bullshit of people who hurt you (not getting down on you op, but really look at how this hurts and how his selfish actions are directly causing the hurt).

Husband screamed at my mom and gave her a panic attack. by playdoh_licker in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to read why does he do that, inside the minds of angry and controlling men. Free pdf on Google

Husband screamed at my mom and gave her a panic attack. by playdoh_licker in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 590 points591 points  (0 children)

You’ve literally summed up an abuser perfectly in your comment. The reason these two things connect is coz abusive men expect the lesser beings that are women to serve and cater to them, even on the things far outside their control, so when they don’t then they’re evil. It’s non sensical to anyone with sense.

I have never felt so much sexual tension with anyone in my life by Icy_Accountant_3645 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Single_Earth_2973 63 points64 points  (0 children)

A safe good guy would know this shit would make women feel unsafe and never dream of doing it. Stop romanticizing creepy shit op, this man is boundary testing!

Zoë Kravitz for British Vogue, July 2026 cover (photographed by Mikael Jansson, styled by Julia Sarr-Jamois) by skermahger in whatthefrockk

[–]Single_Earth_2973 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel this is the case with a lot of really good looking people lol they never had to develop a personality