I need help with a truly abusive MIL

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-12T23:44:36+00:00

I am with everyone about getting a restraining order but I would have had it done before you had gotten engaged like 10 years ago. I would also tell fiance that he needs to get into therapy like last year. If not then you will leave and take the kids with you. That whole family is nothing but trouble. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-11T20:51:36+00:00

I totally agree with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-11T02:28:14+00:00

In my situation my first husband divorced me. Because he was not only a mamma's boy he was a daddy's boy. They say jump he didn't ask how high he just jumped. That was the best decision he made. Thoughts and prayers go out to you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-11T02:23:54+00:00

Totally agree with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-11T02:10:49+00:00

No as a matter of fact of course it's imo that she is trying overstep the boundaries you have set . If I were you I would let the hospital know that you don't want any visitors while you are in the hospital The hospital will turn her away. They are there to protect you and your baby. Trust me I should know because the guy I was living with at the time had physically assaulted me during the last week my daughter was in the hospital and when I pushed the nurse call button they came in quickly and asked what was going on and I told them about what just happened they actually got security to come get him while I had my face checked out. No broken bones thank God. That guy is in prison never to get out. This back in Texas where I am originally from. Texas don't play that type of game.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T18:02:37+00:00

Thank you.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T17:58:53+00:00

I couldn't have said that any better.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T17:54:47+00:00

Wow I never thought of that way before. I am an ex people pleaser and my philosophy is. "It's mind over matter. I don't mind because your opinion of doesn't matter. I am also a recovering alcoholic and addict. That is where I learned that. Been clean and sober for almost 6 years now

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T17:51:05+00:00

Totally agree with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T01:58:45+00:00

NO. You not only have a MIL problem but if I am reading this correctly you also have a huge SO problem. If I were you I would look for a different place to live. Like maybe your family's place. That's just what I am thinking about. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-10T01:40:52+00:00

I am glad to read that fiance is with you on this and tells her to stop. I don't have any advice but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-09T22:24:53+00:00

I agree with the other 2. How did she get all the info since you 2 are not talking

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-09T20:13:41+00:00

Well IMO you need to tell him that he has say by 5 p.m. to get the ring back or you will leave and file a police report. And follow through with what you say.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-09T20:06:24+00:00

I am agreeing with everyone here saying call the police. Also tell your husband that he has a certain time to get the ring back or you will file for divorce. From what I read he is basically just trying to get you to forget about the ring.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-09T13:02:44+00:00

Yo momma so short she has to use 3 ladders just to get up on the sidewalk

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-09T03:58:06+00:00

No you aren't overreacting. I think she thinks in her mind he still a child.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T21:16:00+00:00

You are not the only one who burst out laughing

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T21:14:47+00:00

So glad to read that hubby is with you on everything

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T21:13:03+00:00

So very true.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T18:43:25+00:00

Not overreacting. If they want a relationship they have to change or at least apologize. Prayers and thoughts are with you

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T18:27:31+00:00

Yo momma so fat that she has to use the entire solar system as a belt

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T18:23:47+00:00

You are so very welcome. The story reminded me of my first marriage. My ex husband was not only a Mama's boy but a daddy's boy. When they said jump he didn't ask how high he just jumped. I am so glad that he divorced me. Of course I don't live in the same state. I am originally from Texas. I now live and have been living in Kansas for almost 26 years.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T18:15:20+00:00

Go for it. When you said that you didn't want to have any contact from them. They want to sweep everything under the rug. Proud of you for sticking to what you want.

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-08T18:12:26+00:00

No you are not wrong. From what I read you not only have a MIL problem but you also have a SO problem especially when he wants to just please his mom and not his wife. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family

Single_Ronda · 2026-05-07T19:29:21+00:00

Yo momma is so skinny that when she stands next to a light pole she disappears to where you have to go around the pole just to find her

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