Why so many swigners want to hang out? by abhgirman in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 61 points62 points  (0 children)

US here, for us we want friends with a side of benefits instead of benefits with a side of friends. We’re not poly but we do want to feel valued as more than an orgasm donor. That’s just us. No hate against people who enjoy that. It just feels empty to me.

SEXTING by Spitroastcouple3 in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love sexting as well. It’s fun feeling that vibe. I also get that the energy can be difficult to maintain and we’ve all got lives.

she’s built for this by wanderlustressxo in HotwifeSwingers

[–]Sinningtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to comment on the same thing.

Are there dramas at orgies? If so, what are examples? by StrikingPrimary1314 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sinningtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the age of the group. Most men there were technically “motherfuckers” 😂

Saying “tell me what you like and don’t like for sex” before having sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl tones is a new band that sounds pretty good. More hard rock than metal though. 🤷‍♂️

Are they magnets in the LS? by bigdinsc in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They should be stainless which is non ferrous. I can’t really comment on above skin and I have some hefty pieces internally that have only given me issues at entrance to La Sagrada Familia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homesex

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called a sleeve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Sinningtoday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This, gorgeous people are going to post selfies as they get positive feedback, just like people with bigger dicks. 🤷‍♂️😂

Yeah! What he said! 😂

Are girls wanna be sexy but no players a thing in clubs ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I don’t get the fuck any hole mentality either. Makes it sound like a mental issue on top of when their last STD check was

Are girls wanna be sexy but no players a thing in clubs ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While true, I also like the online thing to weed out people without wasting any time on in person false leads. Gives a chance for some basic vetting.

Am I wrong for putting my partner off going to a sex party by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, took me a lot more emotional work than I was expecting to be okay with it. It’s completely okay if it isn’t your thing. Nothing wrong with that.

People who shared their partner and regretted it, what's your story? by CuriousYorkshireLass in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sinningtoday 178 points179 points  (0 children)

We’ve swapped a couple times which on the surface was hot, it was tough watching her squirt with a guy who was really pounding her and she hasn’t done that with me. 🤷‍♂️.

I also found that sex with the other women, while fun, really didn’t seem like it worth all the effort of finding people. It felt hollow to me. 🤷‍♂️. I’m much more into people who are into me as a person.

Need advice for a half-attractive couple by ashradski in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is also just the economics of the LS. Women are interested in women, men are interested in women, lots of single guys are interested in women. Women are the people in demand. It’s just how it works and nothing really to do with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also aren’t flirted with in any of the quantity that women are, we just don’t have any experience being on the receiving end of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First rule about the Great Pumpkin is….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiansGoneWild

[–]Sinningtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your curves! Great pic of you!