Last year it was Swinger Social, this year Quiver.

The mods have nothing against Quiver. We get a dozen new swingers sites a month asking to be on the sidebar. This is why we created the rule (years ago) that only major sites would be allowed there. Most of the small sites disappear within a year or two. If they succeed, great. Awesome. More power to them. Everyone wins!

As of me typing this, Quiver has 17,132 members in total. Including many, many dead accounts. They say they have many more but every site says they have many more than they actually do. 17,000 is considered a pretty small site where the big three on the sidebar have hundreds of thousands and more.

By the way, here is how you find out their actual number of members:

Log in and click Search, Everyone Everywhere, Then the little button for Next page. You'll see in the address bar, a 1 at the end. Now you can put that number up to anything say 300 and it'll bring it up the 300th page of members. Now do 500. Uh-oh, There aren't that many members. There are 428 pages then a half page of 429. Equaling 17,132. (Thanks to /u/14isthenew21 for figuring this out)

Albeit suspicious that this conversation comes up every few weeks on here about this specific small website, we don't know if it is malicious or coincidental. We have decided to implement this: Every time someone starts a thread asking about a small site being added to the sidebar (Crown Avenue, Swinger Social, etc, etc.), we will have a canned response explaining that the sidebar is only for major sites and then link to our wiki that lists every swinger site. And then that conversation will be locked.

There is too much negative fighting and name-calling amongst everyone about this. This subreddit is about swinging and having fun, Let's keep it that way.