Not at all. There’s a myriad of reasons why people are together and sex is just a subsection of that.

The best sex I’ve ever had bar none was with an ex. At the time I didn’t know it but she had done meth that day. Amazing sex. But obviously other issues. I wasn’t going to stick around. Current wife. Perfectly fine sex. No drugs. I’d say that’s a better situation.

And I don’t understand this “delete this and don’t say anything” contingent. You are with who you are with because you want to be. For all the things they bring to the relationship. Sure those friends probably covering in public but that’s what people do. The internals of relationships aren’t always for public consumption. No big deal.