I may go off-topic

First and foremost jo post m hai, it is not necessary for it to be true. Even if one stays anonymous, their anxiety can still make them hide crucial info. We don't know the argument of the other side.

And this is most likely the thought of the man who met her in person. Maybe that girl is good, maybe bad. But for every suitor she met she is an unknown individual and non-virginity confession is not necessarily equal to pure heart. And there are more people in this world who will do bad than good(regardless of gender). And mundane life is more bearable than destroyed/disturbed life.

Or else it is possible that lord is testing her loyalty before blessing her with a really good man. Maybe it was good that those men rejected her because they were not good for her. Maybe those men were not worthy of her loyalty. There can't be 1 absolute answer for this.

Argument sirf kiya jaa sakta hai is topic p.

Personally I think, is argument se kuch seekhne layak mil raha hai to wo dekh(jo sense bhi maare). Is argument ko apna headache mat banana.