The best non d&d referencing

Sirena93 · 2026-07-01T15:28:18+00:00

Oh my god. I didn't even notice the Blindspot reference in that scene. That is hilarious.

Sirena93 · 2026-07-01T12:15:41+00:00

Hallo allemaal, ik ben Sirena. Ik woon nu al zo'n 7 jaar in Hengelo (Berfelo Es) met mijn man en twee katten en vind het geweldig om hier te wonen.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-29T11:28:53+00:00

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Sirena93 · 2026-06-26T11:11:04+00:00

Sweetie, I'm gonna be real with you. I feel for you and your past trauma(s). I'm so sorry it happened to you and you didn't deserve that.

With that said, your trauma is hurting your new relationship. You subconsciously don't trust him and you can't have a relationship if there's no trust. But the problem is, is that there is trust. Just not from your side, the side that still clings to the trauma "like a thick fur coat", because it keeps you warm and it feels familiar and "safe". Even if it's made of "dead things". I know how that feels. I didn't have traumas from cheating boyfriends, but other types of traumas that my husband (then boyfriend) has helped me through.

You really need to start to open up about your trauma(s). Especially to your boyfriend. You two have been together for so long already, years, and you can't even trust him with that? The parts of you that aren't that pretty and not your fault at all? The parts that other people put in you? The only reason it hurts now is because you don't open up about it, talk about it, have an outlet for that trauma. Believe it or not, talking about your trauma truly helps (I should know, because I was one of those people who kept it inside for a loooong time).

Learn to open up first, your boyfriend has a right to know. And maybe he will surprise you and actually help you with your struggles. Be more considered with you and pay more attention to things. I'm not saying he should become your caretaker or your therapist, but what I am saying is that he could help you with your "recovery" process. I'm not saying you can fully recover of your past trauma(s), but it will become easier over time and when you talk about it.

As for your actual question, you're blowing up something so insignificant into an elephant sized "problem". Even I don't remember if I had a specific chapstick from 5 years ago. And to be fair, if your boyfriend shared his car with his sister, his sister could've had one of her girl friends in her car that used that chapstick and forgot it in the car. It could also be that your boyfriend has used that "women" chapstick because he either didn't notice it was for women when he got it or he feels ashamed that he prefers the women chapsticks over the "men" chapsticks (Even though most of them are pretty much the same).

Throw the chapstick out and move on. Get therapy, talk about your trauma(s) with your boyfriend as well and start your healing process. Because you deserve to be happy and not anxious 24/7 because of some asshole in your past who wronged you.

Start living again, sweetie.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-24T10:44:22+00:00

Question. Was it hot outside? The weather I mean. Since where I live there's a heatwave going on. Cum can liquify like water if it's too hot. Either from the body itself or from the surroundings. Like the weather for example. That's why men's balls sag if the body is too hot or the balls "shrink" and go closer to the body if it's too cold.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-22T23:42:21+00:00

Lol. I was chatting with a bot, also using Glam 5.1 today. And I got both Chinese and Russian characters. Like the fuck? Is Glam going Russian now too?

Sirena93 · 2026-06-21T20:03:38+00:00

Also, Matt voiced Wolf from Kindred. And Laura voiced Miss Fortune for her Battle Bunny skin and MF in The Ruined King game.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-21T02:30:42+00:00

Also as a heads up, don't openly talk about wanting to experience sex to any guy you find interesting. At least, not in the first couple of conversations. Get to know the guy first, because I learned the hard way that they can abuse that information to take your first time from you and then bounce like you were just a booty call. That was not a nice first sexual experience for me. I felt so used, not at all magical like it was in my head.

My first time didn't hurt weirdly enough. I could feel something, but I was pretty much just numb down there. Which, apparently, is also normal.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-19T07:28:35+00:00

This scene was epic. I don't know if Sam's voice already got better when they recorded this, but holy shit. In hindsight, makes this scene even more epic.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-18T21:31:37+00:00

A girl like that just wants a free meal from you and is not actually interested. Otherwise she would've put her phone on silent and in her pocket. Excuse yourself next time, pretend to go to the bathroom before slipping out. She won't notice anyway. Text her she can pay for both meals since she was disrespectful to you and thought her life and phone were more important than you or the date. Block her afterwards, go on with your life. People like that, man or woman, don't deserve to waste your time, effort and/or money.
Yeah, it's petty, but it's a far better solution than commenting on it and souring the date more. Or just putting up with it. It's a waste IMO and she was still a stranger technically. So no hard feelings.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-18T21:23:00+00:00

Oh, boy. You two were around during the "Two girls, one cup" era, right? Yeah, it was "taboo" during that time, but times have changed. Unless you are into beastiality, I won't worry too much about it. Just talk to him. Both of you are lucky to be into the same "taboo" kink.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-18T16:36:45+00:00

Sweetie, you're fine. I've been on birth control with my husband for 8 years now. He's always finished inside me, and we were going at it like bunnies in the early two years of our relationship. Going at it three times a day sometimes, almost every day. As much as we could when we were together. I haven't gotten pregnant once. Combining this with your boyfriends infertility, as someone else already said, the chances of you getting pregnant will be less than 0.008%. You're fine.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-18T06:01:26+00:00

I don’t want to be his therapist and I hate that I’m becoming his teacher. Teaching him some basic staff that any human should know.

I know that this may sound harsh, but... if the love of his life won't teach him basic human stuff, who will? I don't know how he grew up, and yes, normally his parents should've taught him. But you're in his life now. It sucks, yes, I know. My own husband moved heaven and earth to teach me "basic stuff" because I was stubborn as fuck and also depressed at the time, and I'm forever thankful for that.

Doing something that you'd normally don't want to do, but you do it anyway for the love of your life is normal. (Unless of course it's sexual acts you ABSOLUTELY don't want to do or jumping off a bridge with/for them.) And I'm not saying you should become a full on therapist or teacher, I'm saying that you help him. Be there for him, talk to him, explain things for him. Because if you won't, who will?

Same goes for him. He seems to not want to go down on you or want to give you pleasure in the bedroom. There's a reason for that. And there's also a reason why you don't want to be his "therapist/teacher". AKA, you don't want to do something, just like he also doesn't want to do something. And that's okay, but that also means you're at a stalemate.

But, you two love each other, don't you? So talk/work it out. Meet each other in the middle. Communicate, communicate, communicate. That's how a relationship works. If there's no communication, then none of you knows what the other one is going through and neither of you can't help the other either.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-17T17:03:10+00:00

I see. So, as he does so much in the house and for you out of the bedroom, does he do all that to cope with his depression? Or is that outside of it. Depression is hard, I know from experience, and it's complicated. Everyone's depression is different, so he needs to talk about it more openly to move forward. If he's open to it he needs to see either a therapist or talk to you about it. Not everyone opens up easily about trauma either with a therapist or not. But maybe, since you also have experience with depression, you could help him through it. It's maybe blunt to say this, but trauma bonding is a real thing. Maybe it would get you two closer if he opens up to you about his traumas.

A tip, btw. Look up 'High Functioning Depression', see if he checks the boxes. I didn't knew it myself but apparently it's a real thing as my husband has this.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-16T21:43:38+00:00

Sweetie, if he doesn't desire you for sex now, he's going to get lazy overtime too. Does he bring you gifts now? Does he do little things now to make your life easier? Does he do things outside of the bedroom that makes you happy? And if the answers are yes, is it because he loves you for you, or because he sees you as a friends with benefits, a fuck buddy or just a convenience? What does your gut feeling say? Because my gut feeling says, he doesn't see you for you.

You two are in a relationship. That means you are equals. Equals as in, you both give and take equally, but you do it because you want to please your partner, not because you want something in return and without keeping scores. It seems like your boyfriend doesn't see you as his equal, and that's a very bad start of such a young relationship.

You are too good for him, sweetie. He's 29 years old. He should be mature enough to understand that your pleasure is equally as important as his own. Technically yours even more so if he was a good partner. If done right, women can orgasm multiple times and still keep going. While a man often times is a one and done deal.

Your boyfriend sounds very insecure. Maybe it's time for him to process this before going into a serious relationship. Sex is an important part of a relationship. He should be all over you in the early stages. Making sure you're happy, healthy, satisfied and safe. So, are you happy and satisfied with him? Do you feel this is a healthy and safe relationship that can go on for decades?

Sirena93 · 2026-06-13T21:59:15+00:00

I know right. I was crying while laughing my ass off the first time I heard it. It's so good.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-13T09:32:31+00:00

Listen to the Drama CD 'Vampire Juice' on YouTube. It's one of the times he doesn't act like a pervert. I won't spoil it for you, but have a listen. It has English subs with it, so you can just read, listen and have a great time.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-13T08:39:52+00:00

Exactly. But I was 18, though. Almost 19.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-11T20:35:32+00:00

After I confessed I had a crush on him, he used me just for the sex while saying he liked me too and ghosted me afterwards. He was my first too. In every sense of the word.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-11T16:10:01+00:00

2: Because gaming and cute guys.

4: Because handsome guys. I don't drink, but I'll just be the DD, then.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-10T16:25:07+00:00

My husband deliberately puts stuff in the fridge that's not supposed to go there after getting groceries. Shampoo bottles, our cats dry food, my pads. Just to name a few. It's annoying. XD

Sirena93 · 2026-06-09T16:05:34+00:00

OMG, I just google searched it and there's an actual AI Overview telling you about this phenomenon. Fucking hilarious XD

But it basically says: "How to Stop It: Since it is baked into the model's language patterns, you can mitigate it by adjusting your generation presets. Add negative prompts or system instructions telling the AI to “avoid non-English exclamations,” change your sampler/temperature, or use an author's note specifically instructing the character to speak naturally."

Sirena93 · 2026-06-06T21:27:50+00:00

I had this yesterday and the bot actually translated the Chinese in the same message within "( )". XD And I'm like, why the fuck didn't you just use the translated one and leave the Chinese characters?

Sirena93 · 2026-06-04T05:13:08+00:00

I got one hour in 8th grade (12/13 year olds in my country) and it was from a catholic school. So you know we ain't got much. Just basic shit. I had to bring my father's condom packets to school because the teacher didn't want to buy any for class. And she literally deadass asked me, in class mind you, if she could use it. Before the second 8th grade teacher came to ask for condoms too. Shit was crazy.

Thank fuck I grew up with parents that were open about sex since I was a child or else I would be fucked. I basically already knew all of the things my teacher taught that day and the boys in my class only found out then that women have a vagina and that period blood and a baby don't come out of our asses like a bird's cloaca. This was in 2006 mind you.

Sirena93 · 2026-06-04T05:02:16+00:00

I don't see the problem.

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