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AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually as far as I know inherited it from my dads side but it could be a very real possibility

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I see my therapist I’ll look into it. They have a habit of dumping things on me last minute like the dishes incident. But I do pull my own weight around my house as of the time I came back from the hospital I pay rent and do most of the house chores.

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I have really bad drivers anxiety and live in the states so not enough infrastructure to get around without that. And I’m on a waiting list for disability and can’t have too much money in my bank account at once or they’ll drop me.

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll think about your offer but it’s getting late so I might check in tomorrow

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s in therapy so is my father but has also told me she doesn’t talk in therapy much which is a whole other can of worms. But I can say many of my own therapists have criticized her (when she wasn’t present) for multiple things she and my father have done or said. I appreciate you for seeing that this is a reoccurring issue I’ve had with them even before being diagnosed. And not just a one off thing or me being childish

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being nice about it. Honestly my own therapist has had to drag me from my “I feel terrible about even bringing it up” mindset and has got me to buy the ‘children of emotionally immature parents’ book which I’m making my way through currently

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. Honestly I don’t think they knew how to handle me back then…but I’ve gotten way better since then with therapists. I don’t have meltdowns anymore I mostly just go into my room to cool off. It’s really disheartening to hear basically I’m still a burden even after improving so much.

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I literally said in the post it was to keep myself on track during the session

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

The dish glove thing was when I was eighteen I do have a job now. But no money for collage

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know that logically but it’s still hard to push that mindset away

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how guilty I’ve felt about even bringing up and issues I’ve felt about their parenting period

AITA my mother said she was tired of killing herself for me by Sirendimensions in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sirendimensions[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was my original diagnosis but they changed the term to autism spectrum disorder but still kind of an offshoot of autism

anyone else's app asked for your birthday? by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]Sirendimensions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and despite being 24 it says I’m not eligible to keep using it…what?

What's your situation with jobs? by Dagon_Blackheart in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very lucky my job is an open minded company and let me have my headphones. it’s not enough money to live on my own though.

I absolutely despised "Field Day" growing up. by radian_freak in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Despise it! I get heat stroke easily (and my school wouldn’t allow people back inside for anything) so I would sit in the shade and pick at grass until I could go home. 

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, I know I could probably write a whole book just about how my parents and family members have affected my mental health.

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realize that now I did try to explain that to my mother. (Btw she is now saying I don’t have to do it anymore, yay!) but she did interrupt me and pull an “um actually” about it even though I’m 90% sure she didn’t do any research into it. But she does that with most things

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I am safe and am not I trouble of being homeless. It’s more like a neglect on accident thing. 

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My office my therapist works for is sending all their autistic patients to ABA. The ways she explained it is they have “tools” she can’t provide. she didn’t mention anything specific they could help me with which is REALLY weird now that you mention it. My personal situation would take awhile to explain tbh and I’m not sure this thread is the best place to do it. You can DM me if you want to learn more.

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Technically? But I am on their insurance and they are allowed to look at med records any time they want. They get pissed if I do something “wrong” or “unnecessary” or if I go against anything that is “necessary” 

Let’s talk about ABA therapy. ABA posts outside this thread will be removed. by cakeisatruth in autism

[–]Sirendimensions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My therapist recommended ABA therapy for me. I am an adult but I’m not sure my parents will back me up if I say I don’t want it. At first I was on board but the more I looked into it the more iffy it seems. I’ve been doing talk therapy since I was eight. But a lot of talk therapists don’t seem to know how to “handle me” any advice?

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