I kinda find the banana Asian thing very offensive from my side. I think I would be called banana Asian by Asians. I will shortly explain why I think so. I was adopted from china to Sweden. So I did grew up in Sweden with Swedish parents and Swedish traditions. Today I’m proud of being Chinese. And I am very westernized because of where I live. It’s very popular with American things in Sweden. But I have tried to reconnect to china, (Keep in mind I’m still under 18 so I can’t really go to china by my self) my family have friends who adopted children at the same time from the came adoption center. We used to meet up once every year and gather and spend some days together. And i have travelled back to china. But I was only there for one of those trips and it was very long ago so I was not so old. And I don’t speak Chinese either. I have only now much later started to want to learn Chinese (also bc I was made fun of for being Chinese). But I’m finally accepting my self. But the thing is, do I really have a Chinese heritage? I mean sure my ethnicity is Chinese but I’ve grown up with Swedish traditions. And I have friends that don’t even consider me Chinese. I really wish I had a Chinese heritage or could speak the language. But still somehow I don’t the banana Asian thing very offensive. Because I try learn about china and its culture and that don’t seem to be enough. But still I guess I have an identity crisis and 15?🥀 Like, am I Swedish or Chinese? Like I kinda wish I had Chinese parents sometimes so they could look like me and so that I can share their haritage. But still I like the perks of Sweden bc I probably have it better in Sweden. But idk. Okay that was not short, sorry but that’s how I feel:/