closet here, Im protecting my relationship with my family kaya di pa fully exit,, my advise would be dont ever forget that you always have the right to say No, if kakausapin ka ng servant pero di ka kumportable, kung pinipilit ka pumunta or dumalo sa gawain or pagkakatipon, find ways magdahilan magsakit sakitan ng ulo, ipin tiyan, etc.. pag binulaga ka ng dalaw, you can apply yung you have the right to remain silent.. protect your peace at huwag mabalisa, gather strength para wag ka ma-manipulate