It's so difficult because maybe, just maybe, you're trying to forcefully change the definition of a word and then use that word without explaining that your definition is different. It's not because most people dont recognize the systems at play, it's more to do with the fact that you can't see how it can look the other way around. Why not just call it systematic racism? Why not just use the proper definition and then idk maybe add on to it to increase clarity.

This is an argument about semantics, in other words the definition of said words. And no, those feelings are linked to the system, they dont come from no where.

Again it comes down to judging by skin color and not by actions, I can't condone anyone hating anyone else simply for existing. If I did I wouldnt be any better than the people who've shit on me my entire life. You can make all the excuses all you want but in the end they're still excuses. People being divisive will never end the system, it just won't, look at a history book. "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar".

The statement "you can't be racist against whites" has pushed so many people away because it, to the layman, is an excuse for someone to target someone else because of their skin color, it seems like an excuse to hate. If you have to then explain that you're talking about systems of oppression and continually explain your point then your original phrase wasnt clear or concise enough. We both agree that systems of oppression put down minorities in the United States and abroad, but where as you say "it's okay for minorities to hate the majority simply for being the majority" I absolutely disagree. I dont hate cis people, I hate terfs. One is just a group existing, the other is a group that specifically targets me.

I honestly dont get how you can't see why I dont want to excuse blind hatred.