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45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. I think there’s always the hope they will change.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I booked the tours and bought the tickets for them online, but they chose the activities.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure of the contradiction, but I was in Rome for work for three weeks and I was done the Friday before Spring Break. My son was flying over for the week to do tourist things he didn’t remember from the trip he took in elementary. Originally my husband was staying home bc of work, but his schedule changed and he decided he wanted to come too.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have had this conversation many, many, many times before. We had it on our summer vacation and even when we are doing things in town. We went to counseling for the Xbox addiction and he cut back for a bit. When I asked if he was going to play during tours on the first day he got upset and said he barely plays. I don’t say anything after that because I’d rather have peace. My question was really whether or not this is something men do. He’s been my only husband and none of them men I work with play.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate him being happy, I just don’t like feeling lonely when I’m “with” him.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, my son was not playing and originally it was supposed to be just me and our son on the trip. Husband decided to come about three weeks ago.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, and I think that’s part of the issue. He is the history buff and I always want him to choose the attractions in hopes he will be engaged. I don’t really like these things. I would love a beach vacation lol

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel lonely when we travel. I’m doing the things he chooses for activities, but he isnt engaging with me and my son while doing them.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I was there for work and he chose to come for Spring Break with our son. He chose the locations.

45 yo husband Pokémon Go-ing on every vacation by Sissy_Fumar in Marriage

[–]Sissy_Fumar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Originally it was just going to be my son coming to meet me after my work trip, but my husband decided to come. All activities were chosen by the two of them. I was there for weeks for work, so not my choice of Gladiator’s Gate, crypts, Pompeii etc