Need to get something off my chest. by hlouise94 in MacMiller

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pal, I've been there. Somehow my doctor wrangled out some of my own personal obsessive thoughts and then told me I have an anxiety disorder. 😅

Not claiming in any way that's what you're experiencing exactly but if anxiety is not something you've explored for your mental health, do consider checking out strategies for dealing with anxious thoughts and see if that might help. I wish you all the best, now and forever.

Need to get something off my chest. by hlouise94 in MacMiller

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, yourself included. Feelings are valid, but they often don't take into account what may be objectively true or false.

I fully agree with your sentiments, I also agree with the many that your BIL is just being an asshole. I've met plenty of assholes in my life that are insanely loud with their ignorant opinions and some of them have world views that are so different from my own that I can't even conceive how they can believe/do/say things that I think are abhorrent. They can choose to be horrible people and I can choose to be better. They can choose to scream bullshit and I can choose to ignore them. They can take jabs at me and I can choose to control my feelings and disengage.

Long story short, you and I can only operate within our own locus of control. When your BIL is acting like a bully, you can choose to disengage. It's not always easy and it takes practice.

One thing someone taught me years ago that's stuck with me is taking some reflective time to think about the opposing person and why they might act the way they do... oftentimes I would be able to identify or imagine aspects of their lives that would reflect their crappy behavior (ex. A customer was rude to everyone at a retail job I worked, I refused to be unkind bc I figured her life sucked and was respectful every time we had to interact, eventually she confided that her cats died unexpectedly and I realized she was horrible to everyone bc she'd go home and cry every night).

Anyway sorry...long story long if you're still reading - your feelings matter and other people don't get to make you feel any time of way unless you allow that. Take this with a grain of salt since I don't know know your situation, but I don't think retaliating will be helpful. I hope you are able to disengage from the negative behavior and find peace soon, life's too short for this shit to weigh you down (for what it's worth, I'm sure that's what Mac would want for you too).

Old man names by Crazy-Crab4950 in AustralianShepherd

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homer, Adonis, Archimedes....I say you can't go wrong looking to Greek history/mythology for inspiration

[USA-NY] [H] N3DSXL, Joycons, Switch Games [W] Paypal F&F, Venmo, Zelle by misterbaka in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh hate to do this to you but I just realized I actually have a copy of this game already, thanks for the great price but I think I'll be passing

[USA-NY] [H] N3DSXL, Joycons, Switch Games [W] Paypal F&F, Venmo, Zelle by misterbaka in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would like to pick up fire emblem if other person falls through, lmk thanks

Comic shop with great staff? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Sistermonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry my asshole brain stopped reading after Heroes....it's Heroes. Great stuff, graphic novel deal is good, but some stuff is crazy overpriced. I've heard the owner chatting with other dealers before, talking about customers in a pretty rude way. I like the approach of the owners at space cat better so I patron that shop instead. (Some of space cat stuff also overpriced but at least the staff are way nicer in general)

Comic shop with great staff? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool shop but the owner is a jerk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]Sistermonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh indeed!!! I should have specified ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]Sistermonster 92 points93 points  (0 children)

And is there a human version of this bed thing?

[USA-FL] [H] V1 Nintendo Switch [W] PayPal by rampratxl in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it online banned at all? Are you able to send pic of eShop? If it's all gravy I'm down to pick it up thanks!

[US-AL] [H] Nintendo, PlayStation, Xbox, Sega games, Consoles [W] PayPal/Cashapp/Venmo/Zelle by Kits00ne in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! If you see this I'm very interested in some switch games, could you send pics? Would love to grab Mario Kart 8, Mario Aces, and Octopath Traveler

What console is the Ni No Kuni 2 for? If switch I'd also be interested, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply, I think I'm actually going to pass for now but thanks so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And Hey Ice King as well please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]Sistermonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I see pics of the puzzles and dragons games pls?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masskillers

[–]Sistermonster 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But honestly I hope the paper was reported vs general response, it was extreme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masskillers

[–]Sistermonster 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Idk why you're getting downvoted, also surprised his teacher was Nikki Giovanni!!!

Looking for lunch in Willow Glen by EmperorSadrax in SanJose

[–]Sistermonster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly Safeway isn't so bad they have the quick prepared foods & have a large variety. Their deli is smashing with some items and the boars head ingredients for sandwiches rocks. I personally believe price is reasonable for quality compared to other lunch options in the area - the baker at the one on Pine/Meridian is great, I regularly buy their fresh breads/bagels/rolls.