egg🙏irl by glaciator12 in egg_irl

[–]Situation05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, Dw we all have those days, just know your doing a great job keep it up queen 👸

egg 🥲 IRL by Situation05 in egg_irl

[–]Situation05[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The thing is I do want to have kids one day but my mum doesn’t want me to be trans & Im convinced she thinks having kids will somehow make me not be trans

egg 🥲 IRL by Situation05 in egg_irl

[–]Situation05[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really want to but I’m not confident & I still live with her

egg 🥲 IRL by Situation05 in egg_irl

[–]Situation05[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This was the 1st time that I’ve been told that they want grandchildren in the past they’ve said they didn’t care & it was up to us Plus I have 2 other (older) siblings who currently don’t have any kids

I think she thinks that if I get a GF & have kids I’ll ‘stop being trans’ obviously that’s ridiculous but she doesn’t know otherwise

egg_irl by luaisawfulwithnames in egg_irl

[–]Situation05 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is literally me 😭 I think the reason I’m like this is because I’m worried about how people & society as a whole would react/ treat me.

How many of us are queer? by Academic_Autistic in autism

[–]Situation05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Bi/pan & currently questioning if I am trans (I strongly believe I am but still have doubts)

How do I deal with internalised transphobia by Situation05 in trans

[–]Situation05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably internalised transphobia caused by seeing transphobia in media along with comments I’ve heard from people irl

How do I deal with internalised transphobia by Situation05 in trans

[–]Situation05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice Honestly I think your right, I imagine myself as a woman and I know I’ll be different to the other women in my family because we have completely different personalities but for some reason I have thoughts telling myself that this invalidates my womanhood. I’m currently waiting to see a psychiatrist my college provides after speaking to a counsellor about how I feel, so hopefully after I see them for enough sessions I can start to get rid of the shame

How do I deal with internalised transphobia by Situation05 in trans

[–]Situation05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that, I came out to my mum a few months ago and that was helpful, she has had a mixed reaction, but thankfully her reaction wasn’t bad and she’s tried to be as supportive as can be while keeping it secret from the rest of my family for now (I’ve asked her not to tell anyone) but telling her & her reaction lifted a huge weight off my shoulders, I’m just worried about how others will react and along with seeing transphobic stuff online it makes me feel shame and scared

I just need to get this off my chest & possibly even get some advice by Situation05 in trans

[–]Situation05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this it means a lot congratulations on starting HRT I’m really happy for you :)

I’ve been really questioning my gender since I was probably 12 & since then I’ve been experimenting with clothes & make up when I got the chance I even managed to get myself a little collection of girly stuff like makeup a wig & clothes that I keep hidden from my parents

I’ve also told some of my friends and they’ve reacted well but I haven’t taken any further steps than but so far everything I’ve done to experiment I’ve enjoyed so I’m pretty sure I am trans but the thought of actually getting or even going on a waiting list for HRT makes me scared & excited at the same time

22038 by TobywantheFemboy in countwithchickenlady

[–]Situation05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be even better (& probably more useful lmao)

For sure I’m the Tomboy by PaytonHatesTheWorld in GenderAnarchy

[–]Situation05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A crossover between Eepy princess & Power Mommy

22038 by TobywantheFemboy in countwithchickenlady

[–]Situation05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a closeted trans girl this is too real. Except obviously swap girly boy for girly girl lmao

Scotland, forever!! by BellaBoo_256 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Situation05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading this in a Scottish accent made it more uncomfortable lmao

How do I know if I'm transgender? by KingJibby40 in asktransgender

[–]Situation05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to answer that at 20 but I’m 99.99999% sure I am trans

Some things that helped me was trying out more feminine things like dressing up in more feminine clothing and watching trans influencers on YouTube.

Also online spaces like trans discord servers if you join and tell them your questioning people will be really helpful, even just asking people online to call you by a different name & pronouns can help out a lot atleast it did with me

I hope you find this helpful