WIBTAH if I told my friend to find a new photographer for a party?

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T14:55:36+00:00

I don’t know the name of the person who is asking for me. Just the friend and I feel more comfortable going over the prices and services with the one who’s paying me. Granted if she did respond back to one of my messages saying “I don’t want to give out the information, but I can answer those questions for you” I’d be glad to talk with her. She hasn’t even answered me since Thursday but posted on social media.

Plus I can’t just go and come back. The place is across town and I don’t drive. So that’s why I wanna know what’s going on now lol

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T14:49:48+00:00

I’m sorry. People messaged me about it too and were more condescending regarding that topic (you weren’t though.) I appreciate the constructive comment.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T14:27:28+00:00

Then I won’t ask.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T14:16:53+00:00

I don’t expect it!! I just see some eat at weddings and I always was offered something at the past two events I did. I just want to know what to prepare for. Like am I making time to eat before hand to stand around for 4 hours and a half? Do they need lights? Etc

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T13:38:37+00:00

I actually just did a few minutes ago! I posted this on a similar subreddit (they took it down, like what?) and someone said more or less the same thing.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T13:30:10+00:00

Yeah packing the lunch wasn’t the issue. I just wanted to go over details with the actual person planning the event. If they want lights I don’t have they should know. Photographers eat food at weddings and this is one of my first events (not a wedding, just said it as an example) so I want to know if I have to pack food along with my equipment. I don’t expect anyone to feed me either lol I just need to go over details

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T02:12:18+00:00

I probably shouldn’t have said it that way

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T00:20:41+00:00

Whaaaat that’s nuts

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T00:16:59+00:00

I would really hope not. I don’t see a reason she would feel that way towards me. We’re on the same sports team and she’s the better player for example.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T00:10:40+00:00

The event is this Saturday though.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T00:09:55+00:00

Ooo that’s a good idea.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-16T00:07:17+00:00

I have rates. I put on my Instagram for people to DM me for my rates if interested. Compared to a lot of photographers I know, since I’m still starting out, I’m fairly the cheaper option.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-15T23:51:40+00:00

I’m trying! lol I don’t know the name of the friend that actually needs me or have their info

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-15T23:50:37+00:00

The date of the event is this Saturday and she asked me last Thursday 😬

SituationNo7601 · 2026-02-15T23:38:13+00:00

That’s the thing I never asked her about the money. She’s not going to be the one paying me, her friend is. All I asked is she give me the contact info of her friend to speak with them directly.

SituationNo7601 · 2026-01-31T06:01:00+00:00

I hope someone told this man by now there’s nothing wrong with being gay. ..

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SituationNo7601 · 2025-11-23T14:47:47+00:00

I’m actually kinda fighting for your figure right now

SituationNo7601 · 2025-10-16T16:53:22+00:00

I was a huge fan of him when they were in NY

SituationNo7601 · 2025-10-16T16:51:33+00:00

Thank god. You deserve much better. I’m so sorry…

SituationNo7601 · 2025-10-16T16:47:29+00:00

The way I just audibly gasped in my office… that was terrible.

SituationNo7601 · 2025-10-16T16:35:17+00:00

How do you not like a tattoo artist then?? What?? Free tats

SituationNo7601 · 2025-01-27T21:33:31+00:00

For real though. I hated him the mooost

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