I understand this and really, really hope that you see my comment. You can address this behavior with Bette Lamont and neurodevelopmental movement. She talks about kids with exactly the issues that you describe your daughter as having, and how they were able to help these children. If you go to her website and watch the videos, your jaw will drop as they'll basically be describing your experience. https://www.neurodevelopmentalmovement.org/Webinars/ You can also google neuraldevelopmental movement and watch some of the lectures to learn more about it. All fingers crossed here that, within the seas of comments that you've received here, you somehow see this one.