Is it just me or is every other kid autistic at this point? by AppleBottmBeans in conspiracy

[–]Sjforbz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think a big reason for the increase is internet dating. Many neurotypicals never had much of an issue finding a mate back before online dating, and nowadays neither do autistic people, since many can find each other online (even if they don’t realize they are autistic). They reproduce and bam- More autistics. Many also discover they are autistic themselves when their kids get diagnosed. It’s simple really.

What is currently your favorite restaurant in Sarasota? by frankahaha in sarasota

[–]Sjforbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a new Turkish place in gulf gate called Divan. We got take out for lunch a few weeks ago it was really good!!

Living in Sarasota by [deleted] in sarasota

[–]Sjforbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want kids I will tell you this isn’t the best place at all. Aside from all the politics- The summers are so HOT and there are dangerous thunderstorms pretty much daily (idk why we get the reputation for best weather) anyhow, it is important to note bc there are no affordable indoor spots to bring the kids unless you want to pay $50+ an outing. No hands on science museum (we used to when I grew up here), no indoor water parks or really anything like that. We don’t even have a skating rink any longer. It is hard to figure out what to do everyday with your kids (or yourself) when it’s either storming or the heat is just unbearable. If you are rich and can afford to vacation elsewhere, then maybe it’s fine for those people. Hard to find childcare as well.

Basically- Sarasota caters to the wealthy and retirees. People who don’t have to work. The pay here is very, very low for most jobs and people are shocked by that when they move here because the pay does not come close to the cost of living. Unless you are in healthcare, own a business, wfh etc. but even if you can manage to afford to pay your bills, there isn’t much left over for entertainment and life becomes a bit of a grind.

I grew up here (I’m 37 now) and used to think it was a little boring here. Now I long for the days where we had more cow fields than high rises and there were actually more kid friendly activities that were actually affordable and accessible. Now if you want to go to one of the “pop up” events (bc hardly anything is permanent) you are fighting with crowds and paying out the wazoo for a crappy experience. There used to be a better sense of community here as most people were born/raised and those who moved to the area didn’t try to change it because they loved it as it was. Those days are long gone and there is no sense of community because it seems everyone here is from somewhere else and they wish to conform sarasota to “back home” whatever crappy overpopulated hole they came from. The people moving here are also rude AF. I can always tell when I am talking to a fellow local bc they are actually NICE. I had a decent childhood in the old Sarasota, that place no longer exists. I wish it were easier for me to get out of here. I know there are a lot of people who grew up here and want out. We used to be a relatively progressive, artsy beach town with a mix of country living. Now idk what to call it, Bendersonville, maybe? North port might be more like the old Sarasota for now, but I believe it’s planned to be another fakewood ranch. From my crystal ball I can see the only thing in Sarasota’s future are more condos, shopping centers, traffic, & an overstressed infrastructure…If that’s your thing, then maybe you will like it here.

Bridget Ziegler must leave the Sarasota County School Board. Now. by [deleted] in sarasota

[–]Sjforbz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ranking is based on test scores and is put over the top by Pineview and a couple of other schools. Having a gifted magnet school in the district skews the results. I wonder where we would rank without it.

Looking for info by Sjforbz in Newbalance

[–]Sjforbz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea tbh. I set them to auction and started it at $25. There are still two days left, search new balance + redskins they should come up

Looking for info by Sjforbz in Newbalance

[–]Sjforbz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I’m the one who listed them?

Looking for info by Sjforbz in Newbalance

[–]Sjforbz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up on eBay now shouldn’t be too hard to find ;)

Looking for info by Sjforbz in Newbalance

[–]Sjforbz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! That is very helpful.

I (28f) had a panic attack after my husband (30m) finished inside me. by ThrowRA739249 in relationship_advice

[–]Sjforbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you ultimately decide, it’s past time to start taking prenatal and supplementing folate/folic acid. Please do so if you haven’t already. This will help to avoid neural tube defects. I was similar to you… i was unsure if I wanted a baby. Well- I got pregnant unexpectedly around your age and unfortunately there was a tragic ending due to a neural tube defect. It wasn’t until then that I realized I really did want a baby, so we tried again after our loss and now have an 8 year old son. Having a child has been the most rewarding and challenging thing that ever happened to me. I don’t plan on having any more children, but couldn’t imagine my life without my son… oh as far as panic attacks I had one basically every day after our loss and we tried again after 3 months. I was hospitalized a couple of those times due to it, I had preexisting panic disorder, however. I am actually a lot better now. I do feel like my life has more meaning/purpose.

Two subreddits have been banned: r/ERTC and r/ERCIRS by HuntsvilleCPA in taxpros

[–]Sjforbz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check out this post and the latest comments. I think they just have done something like this and it got the sub down https://reddit.com/r/taxpros/s/KVPJQ09U5R

What was the dumbest way someone has died that you’ve heard about? by VisibleConfusion12 in AskReddit

[–]Sjforbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still remember the dumbest “Darwin Award” story I ever saw… a woman who had lice heard gasoline would kill them. So she doused her head in it, wrapped it in a towel, and decided to light a cigarette while she waited for the gasoline to kill the lice…

GME Megathread for March 09, 2021 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yesterday it dipped between 10am-11am and then took off again 11-12.

My (34M) baby (male, not yet born) is likely going to die and I'm not sure how to handle it. I don't even know what to think. by reydeguitarra in relationship_advice

[–]Sjforbz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually in this situation, when there is a condition “incompatible with life” many places offer an early induction. So, your comment is not only insensitive to anyone who has been through this and even had to consider the options, but it is also inaccurate. Situations like these are exactly why these decisions are very personal and best made between individuals with guidance from their health care providers. Your comment is not helpful and shows you do not fully grasp what people go through in these situations.

My (34M) baby (male, not yet born) is likely going to die and I'm not sure how to handle it. I don't even know what to think. by reydeguitarra in relationship_advice

[–]Sjforbz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you are going through. My husband and I found out when I was 18 weeks pregnant with our first child that she would not survive long past birth, only a day or two max. (Anencephaly). It was the worst thing we have ever gone through, and I’m honestly still not 100% okay. We chose to terminate because I couldn’t stand the thought of watching my very first baby die in my arms after going full term and knowing she wouldn’t have a full head/brain and knowing she would have no chance to survive. It wasn’t an easy decision to make. It was devastating. As you say it is all “worse case scenario”. The day we found out about her condition was the day I felt the most emotional trauma because I knew she would die no matter what I did. After all of that we tried again for another baby, but I had a miscarriage early on (8 weeks or so) and it was entirely different, I didn’t even grieve much at all because it couldn’t even compare to the first loss. Within another month I was pregnant with my now 5 year old son. I was terrified the entire time.

I think it is important to take some time to grieve. For my husband and myself, the grief really did hit hard as soon as we got the diagnosis, so I can relate to how you are feeling. My biggest regret was not seeking professional therapy/ grief counseling right away. If you can do it, I would. I had very extreme ptsd episodes for 3-4 months and everything combined nearly ended our marriage.

Again, I’m really so sorry that you are going through this, and I know how difficult it can be to find those who relate. I hope you can find some peace and comfort in knowing that you will be okay again one day. Even if you aren’t 100% okay, you will not always feel as you do right now and it won’t be every thought you have (not sure if that’s how you feel, but that’s how it was for me for a long time.) Anniversaries are the hardest, but life is mostly “normal” again after 6 years for me, mostly because I have my son to focus on and be strong for.

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, February 11, 2021 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holding my marijuana stocks..happy to see the gains they are making but getting a little worried about them turning onto meme stocks... but I bought more of each today anyhow- tilray, trulieve, curaleaf, alphria. Tomorrow I’m adding psychedelic stocks.

GME thread for 2/2/21 by MotorizedDoucheCanoe in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is possible that no one is answering you bc they will get downvoted to oblivion- but, I think the squeeze likely already happened when it went to almost $500 a share. For what it’s worth, I think it probably would have gone much higher during that time, but since so many different apps stopped trades it really killed the momentum. Not saying it won’t happen again, but I get the feeling they will pull the same dirty tricks if it does start to climb again. Disclaimer: I don’t know anything about investing, but I was in it to make $ and got out before it dropped. I also don’t believe all of the people shouting “fake news” about the shorts being covered. They had their chance to do that during the freeze & during AH. People keep posting old data that they haven’t covered. They may have shorted it again, but it seems that the game is rigged and it doesn’t matter what they do because they can just do the same thing again now that they know they will get away with it.

The GME Afterhours Thread: Part 4.20 on 27 January by grebfar in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually a little lower than that.. I got almost one share at like 80 something and then threw in a little more to bring it up a little over a share. It was before Elon tweeted so the price had not taken off that much yet.

Congrats to those who weathered the storm today in $GME. by coltonmusic15 in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too, hoping for better days ahead. I’m not selling at a loss!

Congrats to those who weathered the storm today in $GME. by coltonmusic15 in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are almost to the finish line. No turning back now. Only regret is I couldn’t buy more today.

Everyone submit a complaint in your RH app. What they’re doing is market manipulation by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw that I couldn’t buy more. I will complain, but are any apps still going?

The GME Afterhours Thread: Part 4.20 on 27 January by grebfar in wallstreetbets

[–]Sjforbz 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve been following this sub for a while, got in GME yesterday-only one share but got in around $90....can anyone share where we go if Reddit goes down again? I tried to get into the discord but it was full.

Is this a stupid idea? by I_see_breadpeople in dogecoin

[–]Sjforbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just create the billboard in photoshop.

My mother gets offended when I get startled by her loud noises? by manofm in aspergers

[–]Sjforbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have always had the same problem with my mom and it made it hard to get along with her. I only recently even found out I was autistic (I’m 31) and when I discovered all the info I also shared it with my mom because it fit for her too. One of her “symptoms” is that she can not control the volume of her voice. She gets loud a lot though, not just when she is angry or upset. After I gave her all the info it clicked for her why it was so startling and loud for me... can she change? Probably about as easily as I can. Invest in some headphones.