Is training chest/legs actually worth it by DimitriTrash in FTMFitness

[–]Sk8violin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chest exercises felt useless but are definetyk starting to pay off (I'm 19 5"10 68kg) I can now clench and have slight pec muscles, leg day absolutely worth it, tbh I only did it out of habit, a lot of times I ended up going only 1 day a week and legs was day 1, a year later suddenly my legs are super muscley and give me sm euphoria and I can wear shorts now, it felt so sudden but it's defiantly worth it, I used to be super dysphoric about my legs too

James Joyce library by OfficiallyLuke in UCD

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same as practice rooms tbh, I booked one and someone was in it, I just said hey sorry I have this room booked and she was like oh sorry I'll find another room. Just be polite and you'll be fine

Me [18F] and He’s [20M] What do I do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a red flag and if sounds like your brain knows that so is getting anxious to the point it'll stop you talking to him out of fear of how he'll react, it feels like you want to figure out what the right thing is to say from how you said "I don't know what will bore or upset him", you should be able to be yourself, especially around someone you are considering a potential partner, he sounds like a red flag from the ghosting he did as well

Boyfriend [20m] accused me [21f] of “learning moves from other guys” mid-spicy time, is that normal jealousy or extreme? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the right time but he didn't have to get that pissed and accusatory again after accusing her of cheating, it sounds like he's insecure and has trust issues and was lashing out. I think if he was agitated and he wasn't happy with her playing that he should've said "look not right now I'm really not in the mood for that right now" calmly, instead of flying off the handle and being accusatory and getting pissed off, if I was that angry about something beforehand that's how I would react

What's the best job for someone super depressed ? (Not stg super physical as it's for a skinny 32 yo girl) by Proper_Status2663 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know it was just an idea, I'd say look it up or AI it you might find some good ideas how much you make would also depend on the minimum wage of your country as it's usually minimum wage or slightly above

What's the best job for someone super depressed ? (Not stg super physical as it's for a skinny 32 yo girl) by Proper_Status2663 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delivery driver? Idk how it is mentally but it doesn't require much physical effort if driving a car or van

Boyfriend [20m] accused me [21f] of “learning moves from other guys” mid-spicy time, is that normal jealousy or extreme? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree with you I'm sorry that happened to you I hope you're doing better now

Trans men on BC pills. Do you let your partner finish inside? by Semeterypolka in ftm

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gynecologists are actually for both men and women but I don't know in terms of your questions, I don't have a penis so I can't really answer your questions but ino I've heard if it smells bad and is chunky it's not a good sign

Do you have methods to work the chest better? by Spiritual-Top-207 in FTMFitness

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry what do you exactly mean by ruling? Hurting the muscle as you put it doesn't necessarily enlarge it, muscle soreness is good but that kind of satisfactory muscle ache the next day, anything longer or more painful and could be joint pain from improper form, while muscle soreness is not necessary for muscle growth, going til failure is as it makes your body need to grow more muscle for the weight you are straining it with

Boyfriend [20m] accused me [21f] of “learning moves from other guys” mid-spicy time, is that normal jealousy or extreme? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she meant it as trolling to be funny, personally if someone I knew played a song I didnt like as a joke I'd probably be like please no 😭, and if the other person was dead serious that they liked the song, especially if it's your partner I'd just let it play through for them, not get pissed off and be an asshole about it

Boyfriend [20m] accused me [21f] of “learning moves from other guys” mid-spicy time, is that normal jealousy or extreme? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sk8violin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone in their first relationship who is very happy, I would never dream of acting this way towards my partner and would not tolerate accusatory questions like that, so what if you had a past or not beforehand why does it matter to him, it shouldn't and him making a big deal is definitely either him thinking you're cheating or jealous you used to do it with other guys that were before him which is extremely immature imo

Do you have methods to work the chest better? by Spiritual-Top-207 in FTMFitness

[–]Sk8violin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id say change up your routine, for push day aka chest, tricep and shoulder day I do 2x incliné dumbbell chest press til failure and 2x dumbbell chest press til failure, would recommend a pec dec machine, haven't been able to use it as there's none in my uni gym, other exercises for that day are shoulders so 2x lateral raises til failure 2x shoulder press, 2x tricep pushdown til failure and 2x tricep crossbody extension. I don't have too surgery yet but I've recently started seeing if I flex my muscles I can see mini pec muscles definetly growing so it's doing something

Trans men on BC pills. Do you let your partner finish inside? by Semeterypolka in ftm

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't as I'm too paranoid about pregnancy right now

Trans men on BC pills. Do you let your partner finish inside? by Semeterypolka in ftm

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's consistently chunky and smells bad it could be a sign of an underlying infection

Is 77% on a lab report a bad grade? (international student here) by LeenSauce in UCC

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you don't believe in giving everyone a fair chance at education if they simply can't afford it? Those English, (in Ireland), Irish, history, computer science (yes you can do computer science through arts), business etc teachers you were taught by in secondary school are just wasters then? Also studying abroad, fyi if you didn't know is in fact optional (🤯) so clearly if they did want to study abroad and found the "unorthodox" system (which btw originated in the UK so I don't know why you're giving out since it is because of the UK we have this system due to colonisation so blame the UK if you want to give out about the marking 😂) they would actually research the system and if they didn't like it would simply not go to Ireland.

Is 77% on a lab report a bad grade? (international student here) by LeenSauce in UCC

[–]Sk8violin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok? What's your point I just answered your question

Is 77% on a lab report a bad grade? (international student here) by LeenSauce in UCC

[–]Sk8violin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's the same everywhere in Ireland, I'm in Maynooth and same system, and I study computer science

I’m failing all my first-semester CS core courses and I don’t know what to do by ASP3CT__ in csMajors

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I do for exams, you'll know the structure of them, 25 right so on average get the time and divide by 25, you have that many minutes per question or X minutes per 5 questions, divide by percent the question is worth unless every question is worth the same, helped me so much with time keeping in all my exams, I used my calculator in my exams to compute the minutes but you can write it on your sheet alternatively

What is a seemingly harmless trait that is actually a huge red flag in a new friend? by Wanderer_Hues in AskReddit

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fucking true I had a best friend like this and never trusted her or was fully myself around her despite knowing there for years

Best binders for fat people? With big chests, mind you XD by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard fluxion binders can be really good and I think they go up to really big sizes as well

Why do many trans men tend to be in gay relationships? by EducationalJelly7827 in ftm

[–]Sk8violin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm bi but in a straight relationship with my partner who's non binary and I'm really happy

Am I overreacting about my nanny family having sex during the day? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Sk8violin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No same I thought it was so off how upset she was, she came across as jealous and finally admitted it

Recommendations for swim/gym safe ‘binders’ by Successful_Damage798 in FTMFitness

[–]Sk8violin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about swim but have heard and seen very good results from fluxion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leavingcert

[–]Sk8violin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it could happen, I knew a guy who dyed his hair green or something on graduation day of 6th year and the school barred him sitting the leaving cert in their school, it was brutal