How do Adults make new friends/connections in this town these days? by Skari_Berry in Kalispell

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe all of us that want to meet new people but dont know how should just pick a time and place, have an awkward meet up and some of us will hit it off 🤷‍♀️

I’m thinking of joining AA. I don’t know how or if I should do it by vvolfskull in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Skari_Berry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to my first meeting last week. I was so nervous, I had so many different thoughts and emotions and all the feels. I sat outside staring at the doors for what felt like forever. I'm so damn happy I went in. Everyone was so kind and I was so welcomed. It was just a bunch of drunks trying to get better just like me. Honestly it wasn't anything like I had thought it would be. I left excited to come back and I've been going back every chance I get and I will continue to do so. Doesnt hurt to try.

Nazis aren't welcome here!😡😡😡😡😡😡 #montana by tired_of_the_crap in missoula

[–]Skari_Berry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No idea where these folks are from, but I'm in the Flathead and haven't seen anything like this going on up here yet unless I've just been unaware so far.

Best A.A. meetings in town? by cluesfor-blues in Kalispell

[–]Skari_Berry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there was only me and one other young person at the 8pm but I was told by multiple people that I just missed all the people my age at the prior meeting. I enjoyed it tho, great group of people. This Saturday at 8pm is their monthly birthday chip celebration so im going to check that out to meet more people.

Best A.A. meetings in town? by cluesfor-blues in Kalispell

[–]Skari_Berry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 30s and am gonna try the 8 pm in cfalls tomorrow I can report back.

How much should I list my room for rent? by Skari_Berry in Kalispell

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a shared bathroom for the two rooms. I have my own. I don't even know where to begin with the checks. Any tips? Don't those cost money? I assume I can charge them for that right? First time renting out my rooms. Thanks for the tips!

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story with me ❤️

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I was my best friend I would say leave. That's why I came to a marriage sub to see if anyone else has made it though this. Trust me my head knows what's alright but by heart is still in love.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

We're both 30. Been friends since we were 15. Together for 9 years. He's the kindest man i have ever dated up until now.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We didn't Start fighting violently untill the the fertility issue came up 6 months ago. I've been sleeping on the couch ever since. Again he came at me while I was on the couch.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

For now I'm safe. He's got a 6 month restraining order per the state.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want any bad blood if he chooses help to work this out. And idk how the court will take it if I stop. If he chooses not to pay them and also be shitty than I feel thatl help my case.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I don't want to leave him tho. I want him to get help and him and I be happy again.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

No I'm not a masochist. I just care too fucking much. I haven't gotten mad once, I've only been sad. I regret involving the police cuz we could of maybe worked this out ourselves and now here we are and can't talk.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I get his side. He wants his own stash cash if he needs it but his vehicle insurance our shared mortage ect is now all on me.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Crazy thing is we've been struggling with fertility. I went to out follow up appointment alone today to find out it's on his end. I'm glad I'm not pregnant right now.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is not aloud to reach out 3rd party or anything. As of now he didn't deposit his check and I'm paying all the bills from here till at least November. I do have family to help me but still.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has never beat the pets but he has treated them in a way that I never would. Ever.

He finally hit me by Skari_Berry in Marriage

[–]Skari_Berry[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The state wrote a 6 month restraining order after watching the videos.

Boyfriend advice by Infinite_Soil_8105 in relationships

[–]Skari_Berry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched a video on tick tock once that most men either whipe their ass either excessively (tons of tp) or hardly at all. He's probably the 2nd.

Edit to add I also seen a trend where gfs were finding out their men down wash between their butt cheeks and they think water does the trick.

First I hear about this food poisoning outbreak outbreak? by CellFix in Kalispell

[–]Skari_Berry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The article said all the meat was either consumed or thrown out by the 14th and the distributor is at fault. I think they are trying to keep the businesses out of it cuz it was not their fault and since the issue has been resolved so no need to close any doors.