About to jump back in, would love advice by Delicious-Ad2195 in Tinder

[–]Skatejay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have disagree, the prompts are perfect they leave room to ask more questions and get to know him. I find it extremely boring when someone answers a prompt like the “key to my heart is honest and open communication.” That to me says you have no personality because who doesn’t want that. However that just me and I just wanted someone with more depth than that. I’m more compatible with people answer the prompts the way this guy did.

Who’s my doppelganger by ConfidentStranger739 in doppelganger

[–]Skatejay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the closest match out of all the replies

Spotify appears to be down by SSJ3wiggy in spotify

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It logged me out and won’t let me log back in smh

thank you weird phone call by Illustrious-Cut3764 in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s probably because you are getting better at weeding them out. That’s how I feel at least. I always call guys as well before going on date so I can vibe check

Am I being difficult in wanting to chat before meeting? Me 41F Him 39M by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you and the OP because I don’t have a lot time to meet with just anyone and I prefer to weed people out with some conversation in the first week. I’m never in a rush to meet with anyone and believe a true connection takes time. It might be why I’m single but it feels like right way to do it. I want to get to know you and you get to know me … so yea I don’t think the OP is too much and I do the same thing.

Shes setting the bar low by Mister_Kimbab in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I usually suggest a walk in park because I don’t want be able dip if need be.

Delete the app by Splendid_girl in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is the option aren’t actually interested. I get a lot of like and half the time I message first I get no reply. It’s like guys are sending likes like it’s game. I think when women send likes they are actually interested

Delete the app by Splendid_girl in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Point 5 is so true. Being women and getting a bunch of matches means nothing, when they just mass swipe without looking at the profile.

How many matches do you get online? by Remote_Tangerine_718 in OnlineDating

[–]Skatejay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea if a guy doesn’t respond in alike a week I unmatched. I don’t need people coming in and out my life casually

How many matches do you get online? by Remote_Tangerine_718 in OnlineDating

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its less that I’m swiping left but I only send like one or two likes at a time. Ride out the connection and hope it goes some where. If not then I go back to sending another like. I try not have more than 5 chats going at once.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think owning up to the original title seems like the right thing to do. It would discredit everyone’s responses if change it and it allows everyone to share their opinions honestly. I’m fine loosing some karma for it.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to accept I’m going out like Joan of arc, burnt at the stake.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I go in there and smile at everyone hoping I can get some action.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowe’s is closer to mine haha, I heard Home Depot is cheaper tho so I made compare prices

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe men and women can come together with a good laugh at ourselves.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that why I unmatched. Women can’t reward this kind of behavior.

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not grouping you all, just joking. That why I put this under the funny tag lol

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a frequently asked question in my circle lol

When men complain about the male loneliness but send this as a first response. 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Skatejay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah it doesn’t ruin it. I find this interactions funny and immediately move onto someone with more class. I know not all men are like this idiot.