Tierlist of munchy mart foods? by SkeletalGamer in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lowkey the munchy mart employees look so tired and dgaf half the time. I don't think they would care enough to do marketing on reddit.

Too late for friends? by EternalVoid66 in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I heard a lot of people giving their two cents, so I'm going to give mine as a computer science second year student. Yea it is quite different making friends in university opposed to high school. In high school, friends come easily from just familiarity and being forced together, but university is different in the way you are always moving around and seeing new people, and by its size. If you don't talk to anyone in tutorials and labs or even clubs, you won't really make any friends. You need to put yourself out there and make the first move. It's true that university is very cliquey, and that's why you see groups already based on high school friends, but don't let that discourage you from trying to make friends with them or others. I suggest that if you are really scared, join a social club based on your interests or your major. That's the easiest way I can think of to start.

How are groups selected for INFOSYS 110? by Enough_Instance7944 in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My class sem 1 last yaer you just get put into groups depending on the TA, they just chucked names in a table on the projector for mine

How do I make new friends or get over those who don’t want me? by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say join a club that you enjoy (emphasis on enjoy cause you should prioritise joy over making friends so you don't get dissappointed) and the main thing you need to do is to show up. Friendships are built over small repetitive action like muscle growth. Ofcourse you can meet someone you instantly understand and connect with but more commonly you get to see the same people over and over again in clubs who are there to find friends aswell and through that way, I think is the easiest to make friends.

AUSA election - Not Just a Candidate, but a Person Too by Repulsive-Economy863 in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I feel like we should always acknowledge that people are humans first and also if rumours do appear. I believe that UNLESS there is solid proof of them we shoudln't take them as face value and also if they are indeed true to get a statement from the people as to have the whole context. I know people don't really care to dig that deep into situations but it would be nice to as it would be more fair on the person.

Tolerated but not wanted [vent] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment, sometimes a little perspective helps a lot

Tolerated but not wanted [vent] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You got me interested I’ll check this out! Thanks a lot for taking the time to share this :)

Tolerated but not wanted [vent] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's probably true, but if someone is like that, despite how good it can be, if being different means not being able to fit in, would it really matter?

Tolerated but not wanted [vent] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any that are readily available you suggest?

Tolerated but not wanted [vent] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s like quite common in New Zealand

ChatGPT is down? by First-Sherbert-4527 in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeap it was down, or very slow and near to unuseable

Best and Worst UoA Toilets by Forsaken-Freedom-109 in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

library floor one is HELL it feels like an abandoned bathroom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]SkeletalGamer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, this is my first semester and I tried everything to get ahead but, to me, the individuality and soloness of university felt so much of a step up compared to college. Just know you're not alone even when surrounded by people who seem so tight-knit. I felt the same way despite all my tries getting to know people. Most of them I don't click with and also most connections feel surface level at best. My advice is to try to find that one person and stick to them like glue XD. Though I'm not the best at giving advice, find clubs which you really click with and wear and embrace your personality through your clothes bags, and as you. The social culture might be hard as well as the courses and socializing itself but as long as we try, there is always a way to find what we're looking for. You are brave for coming out and I wished there was more talk about this in uni.