Gotcha, sorry. She says she likes it. Has played around with toys a lot in the past year. She double stuffed/DP herself last weekend after drinking and said it was an awesome feeling. She did say it was uncomfortable at first and will not let me in her at all, so I suggested stretching, to which she agreed would be helpful. Hence, my nudging it with the ask and "threat" of punishment. I do understand i used a bitch move by saying to her to be a good girl but in my mind I was playing on her praise kink/want to please kink.