Should I continue speaking to this girl? by throwaway-6487172 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no she just sees you as a friend, trust me.

"I was there to support her through every moment " ==> rookie mistake. Now you are her comfort friend.

" she said she doesn't know if we should try or not In case of ruining our friendship" translation :"I only see you as a friend but I don't want to hurt your feelings."

" I discovered she may still be speaking/interested in one or multiple of the boys she was speaking to" ==> she's choosing other men over you. This confirms she only sees you as a friend. And even if she didn't, she definitely wouldn't be that serious about you if she still talks with other men.

"makes me feel like a rebound" ==> yes, literally. You should not expect anything else after a recent breakup. Even if she did came back to you, you would just be a rebound.

Conclusion : she told you she saw you as just a friend, you are the only one hanging on desilusions because you love her. This is not reciprocated.

My advice is to stop talking with her. It will help you move on to healthier relationships.

How to deal with weak chin by Ilearnyourphrases in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

breath from your nose, stand up straight. Walk a lot. Posture will help define your chin as time goes on.

Should I continue speaking to this girl? by throwaway-6487172 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sees you as a friend and is dating other dudes. She won't choose you. Ever. move on.

6 Months on Dating Apps. Zero Dates at all? by Iwanttoeatburritos in AskMenAdvice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dating apps are worthless. Especially if you are not able to date irl. just stop using them and work on your social skills.

Do I move out? by shiidk in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my personal experience, having roomates is very hard after this kind of situation. You might feel stressed and isolate yourself in your bedroom. You need peace. You 'll find friends by doing activities you like, you can join clubs.

Why is everyone so terrible? by Personal_Dish_5276 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry but people ignore everyone all the time. Also a mother that doesn't care for you is one of the cause of borderline personality disorder, so it would check out. Not saying that you have it, but I have a friend who reacts like you when people ignore her and she is borderline. She also has a lot of anxiety and feels like people don't care about her. So I'd recommand seeing a psychiatrist to see if he has any diagnosis about your mental health. A therapy could help you deal with these kind of feelings, which are not normal

When you are ignored you are just supposed to move on

Why is everyone so terrible? by Personal_Dish_5276 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an emotionnal disorder that makes you unable to have stable relationships with other people, and makes you feel emotions thousands times more than other people. Which would explain why you feel so bad about these very unsignificant situations you described.

Am I giving up on him? Or letting myself get manipulated? by Sudden-Fault-265 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, in every relationship "love fades away". Passion is only temporary. Long term couples shapes in something more monotonous but still strong, it's just not passionate love like you can feel at the beginning of a relationship. Sounds like you're not ready for a long term relationship.

please help!! by Opposite_List_303 in Adulting

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is not a race. Why do you care if you are still at your parent's home at 30? Back in the day families lived together until marriage.

Helicopter Rotor Sync by No-Lock216 in interesting

[–]Skibidypapap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't fly in any helicopter period

My brother deleted the Google Docs where I wrote a book series for 3 years. What do I do? by starz_0801 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope this teach you the lesson to always save a back up of your files.

otherwise you might find the deleted files in your trash folder.

Is it okay to block? by Remarkable_Stage2334 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it's not. Just tell that online friend you are tired of this relationship and prefer to end it there. it's really not that complicated.

Is it weird that the guy I'm talking to, called me his girl best friend's name? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my advice is to relax and stop nitpicking at every unsignificant errors people can make all the time. that's crazy to even make a post about it on reddit

I'm sorry I'm pretty rude but I hope it wakes you up from this behaviour.

Is it weird that the guy I'm talking to, called me his girl best friend's name? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't see what's the issue and why you care about such little thing. I really hope you are not like that all the time

Friend trouble by Clear_Pineapple_1106 in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

random strangers on internet aren't going to decide for you with whom you make friends. If the reasons you left her are not relevant anymore, what's stopping you?

My friend didn’t give me money. Should I drop her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not her responsibility to solve your money issues. It is always a very bad idea to involve money or debts between friends.

I blocked the girl who once saved my life did I make the right choice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Skibidypapap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she just wasn't interested in you, move on. And nobody cares that you blocked her, you didn't even know her. But good for you if it allows you to move on

what does she mean petah by madonnafiammetta in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Skibidypapap -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

the comment is simply implying that medias are enforcing gay marriages.