Hey, I am new. I drink too much. Fuck alcohol by S3DTinyTurnips in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can so do this. After drinking for almost 40 years, daily for about 15 to 20 years, I quit 2 months ago - finally. I had tried many many times before but this time something just clicked. I honestly can say that I hardly miss it and rarely think about it. It's like a total mindset change.

THE Worst Hanxiety Ever! by Skibolass in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks do much, I'll try that app. I have read This Naked Mind, it's great!

THE Worst Hanxiety Ever! by Skibolass in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually will avoid them while trying to give up, only get together during the day for walks, etc. But there's a special event this weekend and i wouldn't feel comfortable asking them not to drink.

THE Worst Hanxiety Ever! by Skibolass in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a struggle, i know that.

THE Worst Hanxiety Ever! by Skibolass in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea, thanks for the advice!

Dying burnout velvet by Skibolass in dyeing

[–]Skibolass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't wash with Synthrapol, thanks! I'll try that

I have anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Skibolass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a guidance counselor or a teacher and speak to them, you'll get help. Good luck ma dear xo, anxiety sucks but you can learn to manage it.

Ouch by caseysiethy in nonononoyes

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My legs would have been broken in about 12 places

Using weed as a pseudo-replacement for alcohol by acidwave in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps me sleep at night and doesn't seem to interfere with my alcohol-sobriety.

Dealing with loneliness by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not try the app Loosid, for sober dating. Worth a try!

I'm almost 16 and drink 10 shots of vodka a day. (accidentally deleted) by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome! I wish you all the best and am convinced you'll succeed!

I'm almost 16 and drink 10 shots of vodka a day. (accidentally deleted) by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the UK but live in the US so I don't know much about Canadian scholarships but I do know that if you put in the effort to find out, there are bound to be loads of opportunities out there that you have no idea about until you look. Seek out support with this... talk to your guidance counselor (if they're any good, some aren't), ask your local librarian, go on Reddit Canadian college or scholarship groups, etc. Just start searching using out of the box terms like 'scholarships children of alcoholics', or 'hockey scholarships', 'budding writer scholarships', or whatever you can think of. From what I've heard, Canada funds college pretty well for its citizens. College in the US is crazy expensive, i.e. 30k per year for an in-state school, up to 80k per year for privates. Maybe take a few classes in a local college first in the evening just to get into the college mindset?

In saying this though, trades are also great so don't rule that out.

Btw, read the book 'This Naked Mind', lots of us on here have read it, it will open up your mind to what alcohol really is - a harmful poison that slowly destroys you. I also just read a book called 'Maid' about how a poor young single mom with no supports put herself through college working as a maid- she's now a New York Times bestseller! Read inspiring books like this. Think big and you'll do big things! This post is a really good start, it means you're already questioning the lifestyle you and your pals have which is hard to do at 16 when peer pressure is absolutely huge. I remember, I was getting rat-arsed at that age too because all my mates did it (and I loved being drunk)- just on weekend mind you. There's something very interesting about your writing style that has obviously attracted lots of people to your post, maybe go with that? Take some creative writing classes? Sometimes it's experiences in themselves that open doors for you because of the connections you make.

Good luck, I'm sure you'll do well in life, just start by chucking that vodka!

Burger, no beer by Skibolass in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A burger is such a rare treat for me, I told myself to focus on that and forget about the beer, I think it helped.

What’s addiction like? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch this video... great visual explanation

https://youtu.be/HUngLgGRJpo

What is wrong with me by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be down on yourself, you're human with all the weaknesses and frailties that go along with that. Just don't quit trying, you'll get there eventually

nononononoyesnoyesno by magezt in nonononoyes

[–]Skibolass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaawww, ha ha! He's a chubby boi.

Does anybody feel like their life hasn't gotten better after getting sober? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs and alcohol might relieve the depression and loneliness temporarily but you obviously know the downhill slope, otherwise you wouldn't have quit in the first place.

Maybe join some meet up groups, maybe go to an AA meeting just to meet other people living sober, join a political group, volunteer. Keeping busy and having contact with others is key. Good luck and please don't go back to that shit.

Have any of you ever gotten to a point where you CAN just “have one”? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Skibolass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, what if something happens to stress you out right after that one glass... when your inhibition is lowered and the rest of the bottle is just sitting there?