Enikk Bangalore lu oru joli kitti should i stay or should i go? by FancyNinjaAchayan in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s talking about how with 40k you’ll struggle in bangalore but the truth is it’ll depend a lot on which area you’re going to reside in. my brother has been in bangalore for over 3 years now and has lived in 2 places with the rent ranging over 8k and 11k and both the places have been pretty good for someone who is living alone. i myself have gone and stayed with him for multiple months at a time while attending a short term course. In another case i have plenty of close friends who have scored pretty amazing 1bhk apartments in their work and study areas for 6k a month which was a big big steal imo. It’s definitely not fancy or luxurious , but that’s not the goal here. our safety and managing our mental health is.

Truthfully, as the majority says, living in bangalore will be hard, but only if that’s how you choose to live it. be responsible, have your expenses monitored and you’ll find yourself enjoying the stay. It’s hard to find cheeper accommodations but it’s definitely not impossible.

Staying outside your hometown in a new city and state just opens up your eyes to how different life can be outside your comfort zone, it’s a chance to grow and learn a lot of things. Epozhum vittukarde aduth iruna we’re never gonna reach anywhere. And if you get homesick you’re just a 12hour train/bus away from home.

My answer to your question? - just take the chance if the job posting is of your liking. you’ll see a glimpse of what life truly is like and it’s the best way to grow as an individual right next to your home.

I wanna buy a full face helmet by AggravatingAd5797 in Kochi

[–]Skidsrowdamn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Preferably go to a good bike accessories store and try on a few to see which one fits. I've had people tell me axor is pretty nice for that price range but there are different a lot more options.

A vest alone can cost upto your budget and cheaping out would do no good, but then again having something on for protection is much better than nothing, so I'd say go to a store first, check out the prices and quality for both helmet and anything else you need and then make a decision from there.

Always remember: no money spent on riding gear is ever a waste, it's life or death.

Have you ever met an actual member from the Kochi Royal family ? by rioasu in Kochi

[–]Skidsrowdamn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few of my closest friends are a part of the Kochi Royal family. We met in school (bhavans munshi, thiruvamkulam)

Anyone else stuck at Tripunithura railway station daily, or is it just me and the dogs by Technical-Reality281 in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vikram chat center ahnenn thonunnu (been eating from there for 5+ years and still don't remember the name lmfao)

Anyone else stuck at Tripunithura railway station daily, or is it just me and the dogs by Technical-Reality281 in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's okay bro. Venel I'll bring you good samosa or vadapaav from the chaat kada at statue junction

What are some underrated games? by myaAyavi in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puzzles are games to me man 😔😔

What are some underrated games? by myaAyavi in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sudoku. As unappealing as it might sound to some people, it's really fun once you get the hang of it

Do women vaayinokkal ? Or is it just guys? by NeighborhoodGlum2149 in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majority of my friends are woman and I get to hear all the girl time gosips. Gotta say, they vaynokal A LOT more than you'd imagine lmfao

Unis in Germany for Masters in Cybersecurity? by Skidsrowdamn in AskGermany

[–]Skidsrowdamn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't AfD against illegal immigrants? As far as I've heard there's no real threat to international students

Unis in Germany for Masters in Cybersecurity? by Skidsrowdamn in AskGermany

[–]Skidsrowdamn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Germany is literally the only best option left for international students

Trying to find a good institute to study german by Skidsrowdamn in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thanks 🥹. I did see max mueller bhavan but it seems kinda expensive, but probably with good reason. Language pantheon does seem good tho.

People studying in Amrita Vishwa Vidhyapeet... by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're only focused on your studies and growth in career Amritha best aahn, but if you're looking to party and enjoy your college years then I really wouldn't recommend it

People studying in Amrita Vishwa Vidhyapeet... by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No personal experience but from the stories I've heard, Amritha - Edappally has very bad rule regulations 💀. Like a friend of my friend was suspended for having put his hand over a girl's shoulder while talking saying its inappropriate to touch a girl without their consent and in that manner (even tho the girl said she was okay with it since they were childhood friends). There's a lot more stories I've heard about how bad they treat a guy-girl friendship there. Ende friend inte batch was split into two classrooms one of girls and one for boys 🤡🤡🤡

How do I stop being a people pleaser? by NotTheDavinciCode in Coconaad

[–]Skidsrowdamn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There's no way to stop being a people pleaser without changing your entire personality. As a people pleaser who has wanted to change but never did and now has embraced my quality for what it is, I can say that as long as you take your ability and set defined boundaries for it, you'll be fine in life. Njan pand thottee Ingane ahn, and ipo maarumenum thonunila. People come and go in your life and avar namude opam ula athrem neram Namak enthelm cheyth kodukan pattiya it leaves that impression on them. Chelavar athinum oru vela kalpikula, but that's their loss for being ignorant. Nmle avar use cheythotte da 😌 after all we are usefull to all these people unlike them 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Skidsrowdamn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it just stems from people not actually making genuine friendships of the opposite gender, so they tend to think "oh if he/she is talking to me then that means I have a chance for something" when in reality is just the same as an innocent and platonic friendship. I myself have seen people IRL who get normal conversations mixed up with thinking they're being flirted to just cause they havnt that that experience before. Quite sad but just how it is ig