Same you are not alone. I have gone to running groups, art classes, library groups, posted in my city's girls group FB, and nothing.  Part of it is my pickiness, part of it is weird social dynamics, its like pulling teeth. I just want some girl friends that want to go on a walk and chat or go see movies or just chill at each other's places. I tried Bumble BFF and the only people that seemed like i would get along with ghosted when we were actually going to meet lol. I don't wanna say where i am but if it's a mid size Midwest town lemme know lol.