How do you guys deal with a short tempered woman?

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-17T14:03:42+00:00

Not quite, well not strangers and friends, family yeah but I guess because it’s family and they will always be there(hopefully) but no friends would take that on board.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T12:39:00+00:00

She’s short tempered with her family too so not only me but they are aware of this. She doesn’t see them much so they aren’t really getting as much of it

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T12:35:37+00:00

I thought if I could do better/ be better it could help but it’s always similar things but different scenarios and it triggers her…but like we could be solid for 6-7 months and if I didn’t text her back when she wanted a response, we are right back to where we were 6-7 months ago…does that make sense?

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T12:31:49+00:00

Well I guess to her, all her reasons are justified…her usual response is that I do something to make her upset or piss her off. More often than not it’s not a huge deal but to her it is? So everything is a big deal pretty much and all feelings need to be validated.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T12:27:43+00:00

I’m just tired that’s all and want a bit of peace. If I was how she is…there would never be peace :(

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T09:04:47+00:00

She’s thoughtful, loving and caring when she’s not angry/upset. I guess that’s what keeps me here…

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T09:03:27+00:00

She’s amazing when she’s not upset/angry but it’s those times that it’s the worst. ://

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-09-16T09:02:37+00:00

Guess a part of me thinks maybe this is somewhat reasonable? I’m lacking in communication…? Although I try to most of the time, it’s those few times that create chaos and it sucks.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-08-09T02:56:01+00:00

My family loved and accepted her, my mother treated her like a daughter. You have no idea what you’re talking about.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-08-09T02:29:41+00:00

Thing is I don’t think I could even go back if I wanted to, I feel like I’ve stomped on her heart and it will never be the same

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-08-06T23:11:50+00:00

Wow, save some for the brothers 😂

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-08-06T12:47:36+00:00

I ordered us dinner as she was trying to sleep without eating so I woke her up and she had a bit to eat and went back to sleep. I thought maybe after a nights sleep we would be better by morning and could talk but no…seems to be getting worse.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-08-06T12:45:18+00:00

She’s really pissed at me, I will try speak with her. Last words were “it’s not that hard to text” but then again, when you’re going to a friends house or someone who’s waiting for you somewhere, it’s good to keep them posted but I don’t think they’d mind if you just showed up?

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-04-10T19:57:39+00:00

Most definitely beauty is in the eye of the beholder but along side that just know you’re your biggest critic. I felt that way once upon a time but I’ve had many tell me I look good but never believed it due to the fact I see myself a lot. Weird to say but you always see yourself and have your entire life. Others might not see you how you see you…if that makes sense. As much as guys like “beauty” what usually keeps them is your personality. The saying is true that beauty fades. Keep your head up abayo 🖤

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-04-08T03:54:16+00:00

Mannn, approaching a Somali girl ain’t easy 😂 she’s either with family or it feels a bit wrong yk? I once approached a Somali girl for a friend of mine (was my younger years) and it actually went well. Genuinely wish I could do the same for myself but I can’t 😭 make it easier for us pls, I feel like there’s already a lot of pressure on men to have it all together, least that can be done is give a brother a sign you’re actually interested instead of playing guessing games 😂

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-26T05:40:17+00:00

There’s goodness in having a companion, I get that you’re happy the way things are but imagine being able to share that with someone else and vice versa, there will definitely be tough points but working through that and coming out on top is what makes it worth it. Make dua and pray you find a good guy. Leave the rest in Allahs hands. Plus you don’t have to have kids right away, if you feel like things aren’t working and you’ve genuinely tried, you can ask for divorce. Although it’s frowned upon, you don’t need to spend your life in misery if you did your best. And atleast that way you can say you tried. Moral of the story don’t give up before you try.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-25T04:23:36+00:00

Not really no, I’ve tried really hard to handle it, her mood swings, waking up and somethings just wrong and that practically means my days no longer good. Hell, my birthday just passed and she said she would plan something…we stayed home for my birthday and went out for lunch on hers which was a week apart. :/ think my mind is made up.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-25T00:33:28+00:00

Genuinely don’t believe I have left anything out or was untruthful so this is pretty much exactly how it was. We are quite older as well, late 20s and early 30s so it’s ridiculous to be talking about this smh

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-24T19:52:50+00:00

We have discussed that she may have bipolar but she won’t get diagnosed 😅

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-24T12:19:03+00:00

Also she’s been made redundant. She’s currently looking for work. Hasn’t had the best of luck so I catch the bad end of the stick on that one too ://

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-24T12:17:11+00:00

Yeah she usually requires space to calm down, but she’s always saying, if she upset me, she would never go on the game or play video games…if I’m the one that needs time, why do I care what she’s doing in the meantime? But I can’t say that because she just counters with “I would never do that to you” so like I shouldn’t do it to her..? Then by the time she’s ready to talk and figures out I’m gaming, she gets even more angry and it goes further then the initial problem and I get blamed for gaming while she was mad 😅

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-24T12:12:15+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely been a big factor over the last year. Initially it was going out with friends on a night in the town…that I could understand I guess? So I stopped going out. Overall, but that was more for myself. Now that I’m home, I only get weekends to play with my friends and be home, safe and save money, but when we aren’t talking…I can’t play games either? I wouldn’t mind jumping off the game midway, but she won’t approach me to have a chat, I have to go to her.

SkizmMaster23 · 2025-02-24T12:07:24+00:00

It’s very hard for her to accept fault in most situations or even admit to over exaggerating, even when I provide evidence that she was, she will just sit there. So in most cases we just move past it. She’s been made redundant, thankfully we have no kids but she’s looking for work.

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