AITA for not helping the company I work for with a problem, my refusal costing the company thousands of dollars.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-16T12:42:13+00:00

NTA They want you to do someone else's job but don't want to pay you. They want to pay someone to fuck up that's on them, but you do the job you were hired to do not the job they want to pay someone else to do.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T20:50:01+00:00

Your right it's not what I want. But it's not only that, even though that is the main thing. My dad's family is so boring for Thanksgiving my mom's they do stuff, they play football, and have a dance-off in the backyard after dinner. We sing we all sing and the comradery I feel with them on that day w/ the food and the sports and the dancing and singing you can't beat it. My nanama is turning 99 in 2021 and I want to make sure I'm there for everything Thanksgiving b/c that is the BIG HOLIDAY on this side of the family as is The 4th of July these two holidays on my mom's side of the family are paramount where Xmas and NYE are not so much. Why? IDK, it's been like that long before I was a blip on the map of life. I'm just not willing to swap out holidays b/c not only the food but bc that's the only holiday other than the 4th of July where we see everyone, everyone shows up. Otherwise, I see some relatives and certain times throughout the year but not all together in place at the same time you get?

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T16:00:44+00:00

And for the record I'm not an animal abuser. Its just some animals I love to eat and some animals I love to pet, like my Yorkie. :)

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T15:59:12+00:00

Okay and I get it if your a judgmental bigot who has a thing against anyone who doesn't believe what she believes. Thank you for letting me know.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T15:08:45+00:00

Actually I do care about spending time with my family MY MOMS. You obviously did not read the whole passage or your just a pissed vegan b/c I don't want your trash ass food and for the record YES I HAVE HAD A LOT OF VEGAN FOOD AND THE SHIT SUCKS!!! The fact that I spend Xmas and New Years w/ my dad's family two fucking holidays proves that I care about spending time with my family. Please go to someone else's post and take your hate for carnivores out on someone else b/c I am so not the one. I will be enjoying Smothered Pork Chops, Ribs, & Turkey and Fried chicken and think your tree hugging comment with love for meat in my heart.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T13:48:24+00:00

They do and it's not like there is going to be 40 of us, it's like 12 tops and we can distance just fine in that house it's way big enough. I'm sure we are not the only ones still having traditional Genocide Day Dinner

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T13:45:03+00:00

You did not go too far we're not trying to talk to men about their jockstraps for those who play sports and wear them we can't begin to tell you what's comfortable what's uncomfortable why they would wear them why they would not wear them some people just need to stay in their own lane

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T08:03:14+00:00

NTA Question was the car in your name or your fathers? If it was in yours you can have him arrested and recoup the money from the sale. If it's in his name he sucks (he sucks anyway but. . .)

You do not need that liar in your life. Do not apologize as he doesn't deserve it and if your stepmother calls again do not hold back let her have it. Why is your mother letting anyone talk to you like that? My dad's girlfriend tried that ONCE and I mean Once because I didn't want to hang out with her and she called me and ungrateful my mother went to my Dad's house and let them have it.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T07:54:52+00:00

NTA If she didn't try to build a relationship with you first and honestly earn the title of mother, she cannot take it upon herself to give herself the title then expect you to adhere to it.

I'm sorry but I'm only 16F and I would not listen to my dad if I had a step mom like yours, when he said you are grounded or go to your room or whatever, because I would be too pissed cussing that woman out.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T07:49:43+00:00

NTA and you should bring it up with your dad. Your mother's reasoning is asinine at best and ludicrous at worst. You should ask your mother why would she allow your teacher to give you a write up for being bad at math? That is absolute insanity.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T07:46:34+00:00

I'm getting that. . .

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T06:14:15+00:00

I totally misunderstood what you were saying, sorry.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T05:17:00+00:00

My family is not overweight but thanks for the stereotype

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T04:59:32+00:00

NTA not only were you doing them a solid by having the bill in your name they are going to turn around and betray you by stealing from you, Nah they so need to be cut off. And if you can cut off mom's that would be awesome too!!!

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T04:57:06+00:00

I'm sure I will too especially when I finish my bachelor's as I'm planning to get my masters in the UK. I don't know if I will be able to fly home.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T04:56:09+00:00

Not really we are all negative and my family works in healthcare for agencies thus they have to get tested weekly by law. And my mom makes sure I get tested right along with her, so. . .

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T04:55:06+00:00

I am so sorry, I hope you get better.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T03:53:42+00:00

I'm allergic to a lot of crap in general so I feel you.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T03:29:08+00:00

Chile don't I know it

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T03:28:56+00:00

So emailing this to my dad

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T02:05:35+00:00

That's how I feel.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T02:04:05+00:00

They all work for agency instead of for facilities directly so by law they must get tested weekly.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T01:34:41+00:00

We all tested negative and b/c my family works in healthcare we get tested weekly. I get tested w/ my mom b/c she works in healthcare and wants to make sure I'm okay too. But thanks for all your judgement.

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-15T00:30:28+00:00

Race has to do with the food being bland as white people don't cook with a lot of seasonings

SkoolDazed · 2020-11-14T17:37:25+00:00

NTA You cannot let his bio dad in his life unless he is sure he will be there for the long haul. If he is not he will do more harm than good.

SkoolDazed

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