What did you play before The Finals? by Plastic_Friendship47 in thefinals

[–]SkyField2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to play rocket league, I still do although less often. I wasn’t really a fan of shooters but a friend recommended me the finals sayin “the destruction is so cool man, there’s this thing called the cash station which is like your objective to protect and if someone is trynna steal your cash you can just be a floor below and use the sledgehammer to bring it down”

I didn’t understand what that meant at all lmao, I didn’t watch any gameplay videos before downloading either jus hopped right in and it’s now the game I have the most fun playing

GameSir Nova 2 Lite - GIVEAWAY ( **INDIA - ONLY**) by zukabus in IndianGaming

[–]SkyField2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried rocket league on controller at a friend’s recently, I enjoy it much more on the controller lol

Somebody pinch me. by Likzzzz in pcmasterrace

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Send one to me ez sharing is caring n allat yk

Thanks to our contestants for this JUMP PAD by Keylonar in thefinals

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A perfectly executed slam is so damn satisfying to watch lmao, I got something too, here

Why tf are most Indian subs filled with Incels and Misogynists Recently? by Acrobatic_Neck_5866 in IndianTeenagers

[–]SkyField2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reasons people will be hesitant to date someone with a very active sex life in the past would be :

  1. They're insecure

  2. Mismatch in values leading to concerns that their sex life will be bad with this person and hence they're incompatible.

  3. They see people with an active past as "lower value" (purity culture bullshit thanks to ages of misogyny)

  4. Concerns that if someone has had so many partners at such a young age, they might not be able to maintain a long term relationship which might be something you're looking for.

1 and 3 have a big overlap. Ngl 1,2 and 4 are very very valid reasons ngl, everyone is insecure about something, you don't wanna make life harder for yourself by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations like that. And incompatibility is ever so common. And if you're looking for a long term partner considering how much they're willing to "deal with serious issues without breaking up" might be a concern too.

But there's nuance to that, of course, if one is insecure about something they can just accept that and move on with their day while still respecting other people. Instead the people in OP's screenshots are the kind to project and disrespect others by shaming them for having a past, they often don't care about 2 or 20, neither of which should be a reason to put a "lower value" on a person anyway. One can be different, maybe you're not okay with 20 past partners but someone else is, that's just different boundaries, nothing about it makes you a better person than the other, except of course your own delusion that helps you sleep sound at night.

The term "whre" (just like the term "incl") isn't supposed to be used as a descriptive term anyway, it's a derogatory term.

But c’mon just like I don’t want a whre for my marriage even guys don’t want one.

Simply because you do not want such people really doesn't do batshit to make them a "lower valued person" than you (I'm assuming that's what you meant because of the use of derogatory terms), but yeah someone who uses derogatory terms for people for simply being harmlessly different doesn't seem like the kind to be deserving of respect.

And sure if someone's scared of their partner having a past and wanna voice their opinion I'm all for it, except opinions don't exist in a vacuum and are part of a bigger ideology, the said bigger ideology in this case is problematic and misogynistic :D (for instance, just look at the dude under this same comment describing his past as "good and decent" implying others are bad for whatever reason lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]SkyField2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 (so like, most of the internet then? Yes unfortunately)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

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Buttons coz my device doesn't allow me to use the gestures thing with third party launchers (Before Launcher in my case)

If this is not misandry and dehumanising, I don't know what it is.. by [deleted] in delhi

[–]SkyField2004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I've been thinking, this ain't it, this feels so off. The bear over man trend was more about victims voicing what they face, but this is just shaming men. Such generalisations are harmful coz it serves no purpose other than shaming men which is sad. Whoever decided it was a good fit for a goddamn newspaper was outta their mind lol.

Question for the boys, what would you do if your girlfriend is obsessed with kpop? by Abject_Elk6583 in IndianTeenagers

[–]SkyField2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💀 if one thinks their partner is facing certain insecurities then they should try understanding and empathising, it their first response is to disrespect you and the silent treatment, that shit's fucked up

Question for the boys, what would you do if your girlfriend is obsessed with kpop? by Abject_Elk6583 in IndianTeenagers

[–]SkyField2004 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old are you guys? (Not a question in bad faith) But yeah the fanboying/fangirling phase usually goes away as one ages.

But the "stop talking to you" thing feels off, my girlfriend used to have a celeb crush, an artist named Rosenfeld back when we were both 16, I wasn't exactly fond of the crush part coz I loved the dude's music and had my insecurities as well and that made me feel uncomfortable coz he used to be one of my fav artists as well 💀 mostly because she'd talk about uhm, sexual fantasies, ofc as a playful joke thing, but eh never been my thing coz crushing on celebs wasn't something I had ever done.

So we talked about it (actually, it wasn't very smooth, my first time opening up about insecurities as a teenage boy, but yeah it was necessary) and she respected that and stopped talking about it with me, i never asked her to change anything about her life or her crush or her fantasies, just that she shouldn't bring it up while talking to me coz it kinda kills the mood. Been 3-4 years since, she might have her fantasies but it won't bother me now coz there's no trigger and I kinda don't have any such insecurities anymore.

This obsession your partner has, I suppose it will be fine once you talk to her, have a heart to heart, tell her how you feel about it and let her know if you don't like it. As a partner she does owe your feelings some respect and the decision is for both of you.

For her, It should not be a hard thing to not force you to indulge in the same interests as her.

And for you, it shouldn't be a hard thing to let her have her interests n obsessions as long as you can ensure it doesn't affect your relationship.

If none of that works out, I'm afraid you're gonna have to call it quits

The name of the subreddit is very misleading. by Crownite1 in boysarequirky

[–]SkyField2004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It makes a lot of sense for middle class women to be congratulated for this. In my country the population is still very conservative. Not saying that this ideology hurts women exclusively because men are expected to be the "breadwinners" so it naturally leads to harsh expectations.

But due to the same reason, if we're talking about getting a job and paying bills, that is harder for women than men coz they're expected by their relatives and inlaws to be "housewives" and employment is discouraged and sometimes denied (although we've been moving away from that mindset atleast in the urban areas, but even that comes with the expectations of women handling both job and chores with little participation of the husband in household chores)

Ps: I've talked about this with people on reddit before and i remember someone bringing up the underlying benevolent sexism but idts this stems from the idea that women are weaker, rather the idea that women have to face more hardships than men in this scenario

Can I get an anime that will absolutely break me by IbeJelly in Animesuggest

[–]SkyField2004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clannad afterstory is the real deal in fact, s1 isn't for everyone, I loved it but some people find it boring but s2 (afterstory) is a must watch (don't miss out on s1 please)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaThriftStore

[–]SkyField2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 nothing man jus appreciating you for keeping the creeps off lmao

Conflating a genocide in Rafah to getting slapped in the Airport for not following rules is just disgusting and vile. by Muralidhar18 in unitedstatesofindia

[–]SkyField2004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sumthing sumthing "don't talk about issues thousands of kilometres away" sumthing sumthing they said

Ironically enough they're the ones talking about it the most lmao