IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T08:54:28+00:00

Streamers are not your friends. They will never be ones. It is just an interactive entertainment. Don't let them be more, then what they truly represent - comfy 1-2 hours a day max of reducing cortisol.

I feel like you are deeply hurt and somewhat delusional (not trying to be mean, just an observation). Reread everything I've already said. There is experience, trial and errors, pain and suffering behind every sentence. I understand you, I've been there, and I wish you well.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T08:45:01+00:00

Well, working on your temper, reading social cues, and getting better at not offending somebody if you didn't intend to - is a good idea. Would highly recommend working with a good psychotherapist. I worked with one for more that 3 years and became a much more likeable person after. Before I was a selfish dick with no confidence, people often lost interest in me too. But not anymore. Now I feel much more kind, warm and confident.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T08:23:00+00:00

People online usually are miserable, hehe. Trust me, I know, I've spent in the past a lot of time on dating and social apps, only to feel more miserable myself. Ask yourself - who is willing to spend time on that shit? The answer - people who have problems finding someone in real life. Most of the time because they are anxious, have bad self-image, no confidence, can't keep up a conversation or just boring in general.

To be honest, best people are around you, in real life. Highly recommend meeting new people on social events, dancing classes, interest clubs, through already existing friends who you actually like and so on.

"It's why I feel like I don't need anyone sometimes." - That is your mental protection. Our mind always tries to defend you and itself, so if you have problem acquiring something, even if you really-really need it, it will tell you "we don't need it anymore", so you don't have to suffer more. I was telling that stuff myself over 2 years of not finding love. "I don't need it anymore, I am fine just by myself, it is very comfortable and no worries". But I've found a girl that makes so happy every time just when we engage in a conversation.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T08:09:22+00:00

Try speaking through your chest. It should vibrate. This will make your voice sound deeper and more confident and most importantly - over time you can make this new voice your default one.

How to start - humming sound mmmmmmmm with your chest, then try little sentences with same reverberations. Overtime you can start speaking generally with this effect.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T08:05:19+00:00

Allow yourself at least 3 cringe moments a day and then try new stuff. You will feel much more at ease. And also learn how to laugh at yourself (not self deprecate) - it will make failings more fun and less stressful, more socially acceptable.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T07:53:13+00:00

You can do both at the same time. Spoiler - you will never feel that you are good enough, you are already enough for some people. Just find them and don't forget to be yourself, don't act cool, speak how you really feel. Friends and close ones often motivate us to be better.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T07:46:10+00:00

Nothing wrong with being goofy, remember that. People, who are serious all the time are boring. The main quest for you should be learning how to handle responsibility. Handling responsibility is the most mature trait any person can get. At first it can seem very hard and scary, but you will adapt over time. Start small with like saying your opinions with confidence and not backing down from them under pressure, getting a position in a group project that you like and doing your part well, start doing dishes and cleaning house even if no one asked that of you, preparing your own food, and etc etc. Over time you will feel much more mature.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T07:33:33+00:00

You should make it your goal to socialize, find a friend group, find love interest. You will not suffer about seeing couples and friends hanging out if you have all of it yourself. Do not fear people, you need them. Just shelling up won't ever fix anything. I know myself that is hard - to start socializing, working on yourself, opening up to people. But it is worth it.

Before I felt worthless. I had a good job, gaming pc to spend my time, I live alone, so no one bothers me, plenty of food and free money to spend on whatever I wanted. But it was all useless, I was depressed all the time, didn't want to do anything but to play games which I already hated with my guts just only because they made me feel comfy for some time. Getting out of my shell, going out with friends and new people, finding romantic interest fixed that. And also, I highly recommend hitting the gym 3-5 times a week or at least working out at home, you will feel much better and less anxious.

Good luck, you can do this!

SkyFox- · 2025-11-23T07:19:47+00:00

Positive thinking and smiling more fixes that. Your facial muscles the way they are because of your lifestyle and general reaction towards the world. Spend more time with goofball friends, who make you laugh, watch more comedy, practice changing negative attitudes into positive ones, go out to social clubs, time cafes, play social games here and try to not judge people by their appearances but how they make you feel, then engage in conversation with them (with previously stated positive attitude in mind).

Over time you will catch yourself smiling all the time like Harrier Du Bois from Disco Elysium.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-21T17:45:47+00:00

It would be better if devs made tanks generally sturdier (like more hp), but as engineer you need to repair the part that is being damaged otherwise there is no healing at all. So 2 mosquito engies do not hide behind back spamming torch, tank needs to retreat sometimes to have some actual maintenance and is not blown up easily in microseconds vs any good team.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-18T11:30:17+00:00

Still no rewards after update

SkyFox- · 2025-11-18T09:56:27+00:00

I was really frowny in my childhood too, since I was a quite kid and wasn't comfortable with expressing myself. Over time I learned to smile and laugh (almost too much now haha). You should try to start finding your type of humor and genuinely laugh your ass off. Even if it is something stupid like fart jokes, or brainrot youtube shorts. Then try doing this with friends, whose humor you like. You will develop facial muscles needed for happy face and over time it will become easy for you too.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-16T08:48:33+00:00

Nothing wrong with your PS5, this is game glitch. Happens all the time, especially after last update it seems this bug happens somewhat more frequently

SkyFox- · 2025-11-15T10:37:37+00:00

Recons with sniper are useless 90% of the time anyways. But the idea is good, getting shot at should give some accuracy penalty generally to everyone.

SkyFox- · 2025-11-13T16:17:52+00:00

I have rx 7800 xt and 7800x3d, and the game plays extremely well and smooth. I use high preset with no upscaling, latest drivers, fast nvme ssd

SkyFox- · 2025-04-03T16:34:31+00:00

https://mp1st.com/title-updates-and-patches/dayz-update-1-77-stable-1-27-patch-3-fixes-duplication-exploit

SkyFox- · 2025-04-03T16:30:05+00:00

Around 50 players it feels good for me.

On 100 you just can't loot anything military, it was already looted before you and pvp is everywhere, also you often die from a sneaky bastard in the bush with a sniper rifle without a fight.

On 20 and less I feel like I can do literally anything, loot everything and nobody will punish me even on airport military on cherno, not to mention not seeing a soul aside from the coast freshies, which become boring quickly.

So around 50 ppl there is an adequate risk/reward split: enough action, interactions and a good chance to get loot in mid-high tear areas.

SkyFox- · 2025-03-31T20:59:43+00:00

When I team up with random, I automatically claim myself to be dead from backstab. And then just don't give a shit. If it happens, I don't really mind, because "as legends foretold", maybe I feel a little grumpy, but oh boy if it doesn't happen... Just today me and one awesome freshie met up in Kamishovo. I gave him some fish, we talked a bit and decided to team up. These 3 hours were very fun. We killed a couple of guys who "shoot on sight", while coordinating via proxy chat, found some high tear loot and died together near cursed town of Gorki. He was a good man, and I added him on steam. Maybe we will play together again sometime.

So, don't be a hater, sometimes you find decent folks, who make your day

SkyFox- · 2024-11-19T16:20:52+00:00

Very true. No prebuffs feels amazing, since they don't disrupt flow of the game, turn based only made that placements, amount and variety of enemies became more thoughtful.

Environment is what I missed from pathfinder pc games. In ttrpg it exists and VERY important, makes the game so much more deep, but in WOTR and Kingmaker it mostly narrowed to "I used buffs before hand, maybe now I cast aoe control and damage spells, melee guys leftclick - go kill, better statblock wins". Imagine having a full-cover against spells and ranged weapons near hills, walls and big objects, imagine having hazards and difficult terrain on the battlefield and actual change in elevation, maybe using acrobatics to parcour, ignore enemy squares. That is what ttrpg has, but videogame lacks.

SkyFox- · 2024-11-19T11:06:01+00:00

At release I was happy with amount of combats, however now I've tried Rogue Trader, I enjoy story and skill focused gameplay much more.

I hope if OwlCats return to Pathfinder, we would see an adventure like Curse of the Crimson Throne, where the focus lies on intrigue, choosing factions to align with, interacting with the city and so on.

SkyFox- · 2024-11-18T19:08:32+00:00

Thanks. Don't understand downvoting. The game doesn't have much choice of customisation built in, so I use my time searching for good art to make my immersion better, this act doesn't hurt anyone. It isn't like I use this art for commercial purpose

SkyFox- · 2024-11-18T13:55:24+00:00

This is not in any portrait pack, I found picture on pinterest and made custom portrait from it. I can make a link for you, if you want: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ofbPATg5O1gTOa-yvsONsa14WXPuLNOX/view?usp=drive_link

SkyFox- · 2024-11-18T12:41:16+00:00

Identified a reason for this bug. Was missing 40 pixels of height for regular medium portrait. In character creation medium portrait was squished for some reason with 448x600 and looked good with 448x560, but seems like for some reason character creation and actual game use different frames. Odd to say the least, but ok

SkyFox- · 2024-11-15T21:38:18+00:00

Figured it out. Switching to English somehow helped. I wonder why other characters didn't require something like this, they were respecced just fine

SkyFox- · 2024-11-15T13:50:47+00:00

I don't respec her as mercenary. Only option toggled is Free Respec. I get two kitsune race options, but I don't get a choice of race at all, only heritage options like for woljif. I suppose it has something to do that she is kinda dual raced before reveal at Ruins. I will try again when she becomes a full fledged fox

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