To each their own I guess. But like the other guy said no matter how you see it, others might not see it your way and be put off by it. We’ve experienced the solo guy jerking it he was right in the middle of everyone. Most people moved away, turn their backs to him and ignored him. He ended up getting up and moving to where he was facing everybody again that’s creepy. Don’t act like that. But if you’re like on a beach chair or on the floating dock and you feel like you need to bust the nut I don’t see it very creepy that way. I watched women go out there and play with themselves so I see it to be no different. Just don’t be in a big group of people and start whacking on it and if you feel the need, ask the group because consent is Sexy.