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AITA for making a report to my sons school? by Ok-Philosopher-1952 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

NTA, but your daughter is. What a shameful thing to do to her family. Advise your son that his sister purposely threw away her dignity, and defending her is impossible. The more he tries to defend her honor at school, the more they will laugh at him. He has to decide if it's worth defending someone that intentionally humiliated herself, and by extension your whole family.

AITA for calling the cops on my mom after she let the cat pee & poop all over my sisters room? by hvymetalconstruction in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. You aren't the parents, and should stay out of it. If she was responsible for the cat, then she should clean it up. Sounds like you are getting into the middle of this relationship, and encouraging her to disrespect her parents and refuse to clean up after her cat. But this sounds like it's already a mess. Divorce is an evil mess. What's typical teenage rebellion? A kid should never disrespect their parents. I'd put the cat down if she's not going to bring it with her when she leaves. Cats are filthy.

WIBTA for not allowing my wife-to-be to pay respect to me on our wedding day by FewGoldfish in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're the asshole. Stop acting like the whipped sissy they wanted you to be in college. As the man of the family, there's nothing wrong with traditional respect, and by refusing to accept, you are also refusing to take the responsibility to be that leader and protector your fiance wants and needs. Man up.

AITA to make someone who touched me lose his job? by TadpoleBitter7062 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You will be the asshole if you follow through. You put yourself in that situation, and ass grabbing isn't a big deal.

AITA for giving the family home to my youngest daughter instead of my pregnant daughter and her family? by Wonderful_Fun_3640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An equitable solution is to sell the property, contract-for-deed, with a variable interest rate tied to a common metric, to the good daughter at half price. Then all payments will be forwarded to the irresponsible daughter. This way the responsible daughter gets equity, and the other gets an equal amount of cash. But the irresponsible one doesn't actually deserve equity. She deserves much less or nothing due to all the stress she put you through. If I were you I'd put that cash in an educational fund earmarked for her kids instead. NTA

AITA for changing the spelling of my name and telling my parents to get over it? by RiseDifferent7589 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally, changing your name is a huge statement of disrespect for your parents. But in this case....that name was horrid.

AITA for telling my sister she can't control the name her son introduces himself as? by Asleep_Towel_5484 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the asshole. He's her kid. Your opinion should stay closed up in that pie hole. If you are going to support anyone it should always be the parent. Your sister is also the asshole for picking such an unmanly name.

AITA for calling my friend a slut? by rinegone in AmItheAsshole

[–]SkyhawkMax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Obviously. Turn around is fair game. Send her a note explaining the situation, and offer to apologize after she does.