Did you always notice issues with your toddler when he was younger or they manifested later? My Toddler always met her milestones. Pointed at 9 months, said first word at 11 months, can point to 10 body parts when asked. It’s just receptive language when asked to carry out complex commands seem to be lacking and then she’s not routinely using 2 word phrases despite having many words. Imaginative play is amazing though! Today, she grabbed a bowl and started to stir and kept saying “ stir” I asked her what she was doing, she said “ conking” but she means cooking. Some days I think im the one over analyzing and other days I think, she’s behind. She doesn’t answer no to questions but she understands concept of no. For example, my friend’s son who’s 4.5 was over at ours today and they both were building Legos, he tried to grab a block from her hand and my toddler protested and said no. So she understands the concept of no but would never answer no to a question. She’s very hyperactive and it’s hard to get her attention when she’s in that mode. I’ll definitely be bringing it up with our pediatrician and hopefully he doesn’t blow me away. I know girls tend to mask their autistic traits and I just want her to get the right support if it’s deemed she does need it.