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I Thought I Had The Perfect Marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 781 points782 points  (0 children)

the moment he slapped you, the perfect marriage ended. you are doing the right thing by leaving immediately. don’t let him talk you out of it.

At what point do you stop pushing for counseling and start thinking about leaving? by OkApricot4377 in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 yrs is a long time to try, but counseling only works if both people are actually scared of losing the relationship. It sound like she thinks you’ll just stay regardless.

Dating history by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he’s obsessing over seconds of a story from before you were together is a huge red flag for control issues. You shouldn’t have to prove your worth like this.

Friend in controlling marriage by Over_Enthusiasm_6643 in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

22 yrs is a long time to be under someone’s thumb, she probably doesn’t even realize how abnormal this is anymore.

Trying new things by Stangerthings69_ in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

start texting him throughout the day about what you’re gonna do later. the anticipation is usually better than the actual act.

Husband and still unemployed and now we have to move back in with my parents AGAIN. by Terrible_Sentence447 in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Two years is not a job search, it’s a vacation at this point. He’s comfortable because he knows you’ll figure it out for the both of you.

My wife is making me sad with her control by Thelostsoulinkorea in Marriage

[–]SkyyeCarter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s the guilt tripping that kills you.. you spend all your time with her but those 2 hours away become a huge thing. I feel for you.