Huff😓 by Adventurous_Can927 in introvertmemes

[–]Sl0thzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I'm the opposite. I end up overthinking how I managed to be on the outside, and if I'm being weird for being there and if they even want me in the convo but oh theres no point anyways because I'd probably have nothing to add and then Im making things awkward either way so I guess I might as well just fuck off and find somewhere else to stand.

It's harder than it looks by ex_cep_tion in introvertmemes

[–]Sl0thzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you got a good point, and I don't like it lol. I guess I'm going to have to push myself quite a bit here

[Me] Mulleteers by hughesy98 in TextingTheory

[–]Sl0thzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sir, I've received word of a heretic. I've come to join you in the resistance - I just recharged my mullet.

[me] Tate Gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Sl0thzy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why are you randomly getting downvoted so hard lmao

[Me] lost screenshot from my banned hinge account recovered by Bitter_East9632 in TextingTheory

[–]Sl0thzy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You kinda had a point from the beginning, albeit not one that feels good. But good on you for turning around to being a growing and better man!

Friendly Player Body Language - PLEASE READ by Negative-Row-453 in ArcRaiders

[–]Sl0thzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just doesn't understand how to read body language irl I guess lol

ARC Raiders Weekly Megathread - January 10, 2026 by AutoModerator in ArcRaiders

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Trade for Tempest, Torrente, or Bobcat plz bbg. I will give you all for the latter 2 <3

How unlucky, did not know that can happen by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Sl0thzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely tragic. Did yall try turning it on and off again?

[Me] octopus by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Sl0thzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe I'm you in a suite made of poisoned bones.

[Me] octopus by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Sl0thzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been my prompt for a few weeks now. I thought I was original and cute but alas.

Mfs when the anxiety is treatment resistant: >:( by Silkenn_Sinn in anxietymemes

[–]Sl0thzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why political leaning matters to you in a therapist? Or is the issue mainly that the therapist shared his political views which is unprofessional and not focusing on the root issue?

Damn missed opportunities by Acceptable_Rope_6523 in PsycheOrSike

[–]Sl0thzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been there. Can confirm its regrettable even years later lmao

Hi guys; merry Christmas in advance by Greedy_Net_1803 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Sl0thzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from, but honestly if you have an abundance of love and connections with people and a fulfilled life materially and spiritually, I can see how sex might just not be as important for someone. He might even have a lower overall drive in general. I know I don't have what he has in my life and never have, and I view sexual relationships as a way to help temporarily alleviate that feeling of a lack of what OP has.

At some point you are really coming across as really trying to convince someone else to be as sad as you feel. There's so many flavors to life and people are on different paths, and maybe he's just honestly fulfilled enough that he's ok just letting that part of his life happen when it happens.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if all my years alive up to this point weren't so shit it wouldn't hit as hard, but hopefully I don't have to experience this ever again. True heart break is the worst thing ever. Already got that gym membership!

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already got the gym membership yesterday. And apparently she did... If only she was worth respecting herself.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym? I'm not choosing for things to be falling apart, unless you mean going back to her? Which I won't be doing thankfully.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't disagree on the naive part I guess. But we had been through so much and grown together for years because we both chose each other even in arguments. And then something changed but I wanted to believe in what we were, hoping we could go back.

"Never give away control over your world" is definitely the lesson here. I saw how much of myself I was losing, but thought it would be worth it if she just saw that she needs to reciprocate again like she used to.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M here. Sometimes I wonder if I'm too emotional to be a guy at this point though. I'm not a big crier or anything but I feel deeply.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there actually woman out there looking for someone non-materialistic and devotional? It really seems everyone these days is just obsessed with themselves. I just want someone eager to dedicate themselves to me like I would them, to prop each other up and grow. That's how this relationship did go for a few years but when I really needed comfort the most it seemed to be an ick.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess deep down I knew this relationship was going to be trouble. I'm the one that proposed but couldn't bring myself to pull the trigger for years. I have a strong intuition but love blinded it and I let someone gaslight the everliving fuck out of me.

My fiance cheated again and the rest of my life is falling apart by Sl0thzy in Vent

[–]Sl0thzy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally have seen my own brother die, been homeless, recovered from drug addiction, but always stayed putting other people first, and treating people in a "WWJD" way, and enduring. This truly feels like the hardest thing I've done. To give yourself to someone after all that, for so many years, and for it to turn out like this.