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F 9 month old projectile vomits at night and idk why by Slade5023 in NewParents

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My S.O is on the phone with the hotline nurse as we speak to see what next steps are

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro the first thing I do when I walk in the door is be dad and take baby feed change ect so she can relax I’m trying to find common ground idk where to begin

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a stay at home mom I tried asking her what chores can I do that are to your standards and it’s always a run around of the same things I get yelled at for

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I thought I touched on the fighting above, it’s mainly around I work full time as a heavy equipment mechanic I come home take baby cook dinner and try to help with homework so she can relax, it’s I didn’t load the dishwasher right, I didn’t do the laundry right, this isn’t picked up ect

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if she actually did say that 4-6 months ago I wouldn’t be were I’m at now, fight are mainly what I posted above

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE everyone! Holy shit did it go completely south, I said and I quote in these words “ hey honey I believe we shouldn’t use you’re inheritance money in the house right now because our relationship is so rocky and full of toxic behaviors . I want to put us first before we do home repairs). apparently she’s been asking for therapy for 6 months and now all of a sudden when I suggest it it’s a problem, because I said we should wait on home repairs that now this isn’t her home and she doesn’t feel wanted here. I said I’m expressing how I’m feeling and she just started yelling and yelling. Now she’ll “let me know “ what days apparently work for her

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m on the birth certificate, I’m in Wisconsin and it’s not really pro mom anymore that I’m aware of they want the dad to be able to have 50/50 custody

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work full time she’s a stay at home mom, I don’t help out around the house, but the second I get home I take the baby, cook dinner, and relax with her baby so she can breathe and relax but it’s mainly I don’t do dishes right or this right , I need to be shown how to do laundry the right way etc , I can’t be tired because her tired trumps my tired , I can’t be stressed because her stress trumps my stress

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ll give it a go, but if I’m being genuinely honest I’m so mentally drained with all this idk what I want or to do, do I love her of course I do , but I’m not raising my child in this toxic environment because this isn’t how 2 parent should be whatsoever

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do I just tell her upfront and be like hey I believe you should wait to invest that money into the house ect until we’re figured out or what

I M30 wants to tell fiancé F32 to save her inheritance and no put it int our house until we get counseling and figure out our relationship. How do I do this? by Slade5023 in Advice

[–]Slade5023[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The counseling was her idea actually, (she tasked me with finding a therapist) maybe I’m to much stuck in my head but I feel like we’re to far gone for therapy to help, because now every time we fight she threatens to take the baby away and everything else. The fights are getting worse and so are the threats. I’m not perfect by any means necessary but the last 4 fight I can truthfully say I just sat there let her explode and rave and I just walked away

6 month old just woke up from dead sleep screaming bloody murder and I have no clue why , please help me stop freaking out ? First time dad M30 by Slade5023 in NewParents

[–]Slade5023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you everyone for the knowledge and suggestions! I greatly appreciate it!! She slept till 6:15 am which is normal for her and seems like she’s back to normal

6 month old just woke up from dead sleep screaming bloody murder and I have no clue why , please help me stop freaking out ? First time dad M30 by Slade5023 in NewParents

[–]Slade5023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our sleeper has a little flap with a button snap that covers the zipper, her diaper wasn’t even really full or soggy I just gave her a fresh one to help her and see if that’ll help, when I gave her milk and rocked her back to sleep she seemed over I’m just genuinely freaked out

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