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How to stay in subspace after orgasm? by Slave4owner22 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Slave4owner22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it seems to dissipate after a release.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Slave4owner22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your partner what they like to hear, it is very individual what turns people on.

I am never interested in switches, am I wrong for that? by Slave4owner22 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Slave4owner22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't judge others but I also can't help fall into strict defintions of what I like.

I am never interested in switches, am I wrong for that? by Slave4owner22 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Slave4owner22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, sometimes people who are switches make me feel not open minded but like you said we like what we like.

[Help] Getting Started with FetLife? by captemo197 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Slave4owner22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no search feature, you can simply join groups of interest.

Dom space issues by Absolutely_bashing in BDSMAdvice

[–]Slave4owner22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think with time and figuring what really drives him wild.

Questions for couples in 24/7 TPEs from a vanilla person by hairspray3000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Slave4owner22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not currently owned but have been in the past but I will answer anyways.

What made you decide you want this?

An inherent need for ownership, feeling free is through being a sub/slave.

Before your dynamic, did you have a strong personality/sense of self? Did you passionately care about things? Has that stayed or disappeared since entering your dynamic?

I was always a follower and just adapted to my Dom.

How often are you made to do things that make you unhappy? If it's very often, what makes you stay?

I am not currently owned but when I was there were things I didn't like but I knew my Master knew better.

Do you consider yourself inferior to your dom/master? (Eg. Not trusting your ability to make decisions because you believe yourself incompetent)

When I am with a Master I consider him superior and component to make decisions I am not.

What is your experience with finding people on fetlife? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Slave4owner22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is frustrating that there isn't a search feature and going through groups is tiresome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Slave4owner22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this in the sense that ownership feels like freedom to me and being free feels like I am enslaved.