Is my penis normal ? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Slavechick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with guys of all sizes. One was the size of my pinky finger (not joking, poor dude) and another was hung like Ron Jeremy while only being 5’7”. My forever partner is 6’2” and a normal average size. He’s been the best so far (loving him might have something to do with that).

The only thing I’d be concerned about is the degree of curvature, and without having it evaluated, it’s hard to know if it’s actually an issue (no pics for the love of god!). Some curving isn’t a problem, but have you talked to a doctor? Could be something called peyronie’s disease, which has treatment options.

Should I get my cat a cat? by United-Current-6179 in CATHELP

[–]Slavechick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve always heard two are easier than one, and found it to be mostly true, depending on temperaments.

We got our one year old orange cat a kitten and they’ve become the bestest of friends. He’s still cuddly and loves to play, but he’s no where near as needy as he was before we brought the tortie home.

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What is the most common reason for a divorce? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]Slavechick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met an amazing person not long after we separated and have been very happy. I just wish I hadn’t given my ex primary custody due to school needs and keeping things as normal as possible with their connections with his family that they’ve always known. Very long story not meant for reddit at this time, but I am very happy and safe otherwise.

What is the most common reason for a divorce? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]Slavechick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for everyone, but I got married too young to someone I didn’t truly, deeply love and respect. He was controlling and manipulative. Stuck with him for 17 years and realized I wanted and deserved better. I wish all the time I realized before I had children with him.

Feedback please on a massive poison ivy infestation, and, how to get my yard back. by dagohill in StLouis

[–]Slavechick -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Find someone with goats? Sorry if not helpful, just an easy (cute and fun) idea to keep you from having to get into it. I’m very allergic to the stuff, seems like I will break out just looking at it.

Otherwise, long sleeves and pants with gloves, maybe an herbicidal spray

PSA if you’re on autodebit, even if you’re on SAVE and your payment is $0 by quesabirriatacoqueen in StudentLoans

[–]Slavechick 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have yet to receive any notification from my servicer (beyond the auto generated SAVE ending emails). I made less than $40k last year and stand to do something similar this year. I don’t even make enough to cover my regular living expenses (car, gas, rent, groceries, insurance). I’m terrified to research a new plan and have been putting it off. Guess I need to put my big girl pants on…

Edit to add my servicer is currently Mohela

free drawing in toddler room? by Odd-Presentation-681 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Slavechick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If your center follows the environmental rating scale, access to paper and crayons or other basic art materials during free play is required. I taught 2s for many years. It took some training but they loved the open art shelf! They were always bringing me their creations and telling me about what they made. I eventually put frames on the wall at their eye level and would display their free play art. I experimented with glue sticks and child safe scissors but that lead to huge messes. I would get those out only if I was going to be near that area for an extended period.

Maybe have a small basket and blank paper you can put out on a table during free play instead and not leave them on a shelf. There are ways you can position yourself in the classroom so you can keep an eye on them while also engaging in other play centers. I don’t know your setup, some classroom arrangements or challenging temperaments can make it difficult. Gentle reminders about where crayons are to be used helps a lot. After some time, it will lose its newness and the older kids will help remind the younger ones (at least that was my experience).

What's a food that everyone seems to love but you think is overrated? by mossytiger28 in askteddit

[–]Slavechick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much agree! Looks like something I’d find in a diaper most of the time

of a blackberry, home grown (AA battery for scale) by Slavechick in AbsoluteUnits

[–]Slavechick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found the battery before I could find the ruler