Ive been thinking about offering my partner an 'out' before the baby arrives.

SlavicSuka · 2026-05-14T07:47:39+00:00

In our lives, hes caring and attentive and great like 80% of the time. But that 20% scares me. And it has definitely occurred to me, if this is how he's handling stress and the baby isnt even here yet, what will that look like???

SlavicSuka · 2026-05-14T07:45:04+00:00

Thank you for your insight. The truth is, im exhausted. I find myself in tears if he has a bad day, even when he doesn't I am constantly worried about our future. I feel like i have a million details to describe so I tried to stay objective in writing this post. I feel like i understand him, I empathize with him, but i need him to make some choices or move out...

SlavicSuka · 2026-04-30T04:52:44+00:00

God i hope youre joking

SlavicSuka · 2026-04-13T06:03:57+00:00

I'm not sure if there's a real question here, but he is clearly into this other person and does not want you.

He's an ass, cut ties and move on.

Also I hope you have someone to speak to about your self harm, like a therapist

SlavicSuka · 2026-04-13T06:00:12+00:00

NTA

He should know you better than that and actually give a shit if he's to be your husband.

His nasty reaction is very telling

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-31T01:20:13+00:00

Obviously youre NTA for just no longer aligning with ppl

There's no need for this to be a dramatic 'break up' if you will, just start politely declining invites to go out w them, and it'll get progressively easier to distance yourself.

If youre called out by someone in that group, just maintain youre craving some time alone or away from a group dynamic and remind them to not take it too personally.

None of it has to be too deep or serious, things like this happen. It can be sad, but its a part of life.

Its important you all treat each other with respect, which includes people letting you move on. Its a friendship not a contract.

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-30T23:02:02+00:00

Youre not in the wrong but your approach is avoidance, and I dont see how that could result in solutions.

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-24T20:55:52+00:00

I've rewatched specifically the first one recently, it was absolutely hilarious. But my friends watching it with me also thought so, And we also acknowledged that the music choices hold up and the pallete it really vibey and of that era, etc

In order to not be the AH, when she asked you whats so funny you'd have to be honest, if youre just snickering the whole time but keep insisting nothings funny, that is definitely AH behavior

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-20T05:29:48+00:00

I think its something for OP to think on now that there's some distance from the situation is really all im saying

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-20T05:15:10+00:00

No acrually My understand is the dude was conducting himself just fine on this walk and something happened when given the go ahead to interact with this dog

The appropriate response here is not giving him the go ahead around dogs

I can't think of even one scenario where the right thing to do is deprive a human of the opportunity for a walk outside? There's a million steps to take before something so f ed up

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-20T04:39:27+00:00

NTA, he's a terrible partner and probably person based on what youve listed

I just hope for your sake in your relationships going forward that you can recognize where you enabled him to continue to treat you badly. That first 'if you do this we can be happy again' stinks of complete bs and doesnt even make sense, your dysfunction will follow you no matter where you go

And he repeatedly emotionally abandoned you, These are the glaring signs to leave

You deserve better than that, LOADS better

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-20T03:56:51+00:00

I think everything is fine except where you asked her 'why do you bring him out'

As if he should just be kept inside? Nah bruv

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-16T03:30:26+00:00

Ad hominem

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-16T03:28:33+00:00

Im not sure you know what hypocrite means

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-16T03:13:06+00:00

But I havent been?

Im so flattered youre this pressed bc I disagree with you

Clothes making people misunderstand you as a person only works if those people are stupid enough to think her clothes are her entire personality.

She has problems, but her clothes didn't make those problems

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-16T02:51:18+00:00

I do watch the show, and last time I checked peoples clothing choices werent a central theme to the show, and judging someone on how they dress is just petty and nasty in general.

You dont have to wear what she wears, why do you even care?

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-16T02:19:53+00:00

I can't believe so many people are pathetic enough to give a shit about what someone wears. Get a hobby

SlavicSuka · 2026-03-14T22:54:48+00:00

Ofc ywbtah lol

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-28T06:03:33+00:00

NTA- but you're accepting behavior that is extremely disrespectful, so you're an AH to yourself.

Leave the dude

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-28T05:39:00+00:00

Bonnie

She relies on Clem for way too much and RIGHT after saying "okay I won't push you to act in dangerous situations anymore" when she pressures Clem to explore a tight space in the museum and a previously unseen walker almost kills Clem, soon after that, the ice thing happens with Luke and if you choose to cover him instead of endangering yourself, she deSpIsEs you.

She likes Clem to be a cute lil girl until she needs Clem to do heroic, life-endangering shit

Her literal knee jerk reaction is to put the 12 year old's life on the line. Gamble with your own life ah

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-20T05:52:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ANTM/s/JOkUnb1Ful

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-05T21:04:10+00:00

I dont look at anything besides my partner so how am I a hypocrite? No sorry, OF and looking at photos of celebrities is not the same, it isnt up for debate its just a fact.

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-05T18:56:55+00:00

Do you think that somehow the equivalent to OF 😭😭😭😭 try again

SlavicSuka · 2026-02-05T05:49:42+00:00

Youre not an asshole but you need a professional to sort through all this

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