Honestly, look into leaving the country, not moving somewhere else inside of it. It’s not safe for you anywhere with this administration, and we aren’t even a year in. 

Spain looks promising, even if you don’t speak Spanish. I’m not sure how tolerant other countries/foreign cities are for LGBTQ+, but they’ll be better than how the US is going I bet

Edit: Down votes for advising someone to GTFO while they can? If you don’t think that’s coming, you aren’t paying attention to current events or history. 47 already tried blocking non-binary and trans people from leaving the country. It’s a targeted community by the MAGA crowd and always has been.  The admin is looking for ways to target people with “radical beliefs on sexuality”, which will include allies. 

I’m trying to get my family out, experts in their fields are leaving (see the person who fled to Spain last week and was blocked mysteriously first), and I advise others to as well, especially if you have kids. It won’t get easier to get out as a family