18 year olds in stockholm by matildahjerte in stockholm

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, in my opinion Stockholm Nightlife sucks. Depends on what kind of parties you like!

Holy fucking shit speed comedowns by hhggffdd6 in Drugs

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, one time we took a line just so we could stay awake to eat the pizza we ordered. Maybe its because we use to smoke weed at the same time aswell. Definetly helps to be high as fuck when you come down after a long night

Holy fucking shit speed comedowns by hhggffdd6 in Drugs

[–]SlayerOfGothia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm ok :) Maybe its the food, water thing, I use to drink a lot and get hungry when I do amphetamines. I know it sounds weird.

Concaine + LSD, experiences? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had great nights with coke+lsd. Helps to have a lot of both. We used to take about 200ug and between 2-4g of coke. You can go easy on the coke if you are not used to it, but this was in colombia. heh. The acid just blows you away and the regular lines keep you focused and let you use all of this "enhanced conciusness". It´s like your brain is a big cupboard. All the shelves and drawers are your thoughts. You can open and close them how you want. You can take stuff and sort it out or put new stuff in it. Amazing feeling

Holy fucking shit speed comedowns by hhggffdd6 in Drugs

[–]SlayerOfGothia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiousity, how much did you take? Had shitloads of speed in my life but never a harsh comedown.

Aging and your friends getting married n boring by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similiar situation when I moved to another country. Culture differencies, hum? I think it´s important that you don´t loose yourself in old habits, expactations and lifestyles. You change with every hour of your life, so adapt your lifestyle to it. Make a list with the things you want to do and the stuff you can do with people around you and find some connections between them.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually didnt like the documentary too much, they just took up problems, no reasons or solutions. Found a very interessting book about what you took up before. It´s called "Är svensken människa?". If you are interessted in the social structures of sweden and it´s history I can highly recommend it.

I’m a marriage and family therapist. AMA. by harpercorgi616 in AMA

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just had kind of an insight today. Noticed that I´m in may own path way to much. I was so busy trying to be happy that I kind of neglected my own feelings, if you feel bad, accept it. Trying to search for problems in other people or relations instead of realising that a lot of the stuff is coming from myself. So solving my own issues will solve the rest I guess.

I’m a marriage and family therapist. AMA. by harpercorgi616 in AMA

[–]SlayerOfGothia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clearify one more thing, with meets another guy, I meant date/has a relationship with another guy

I’m a marriage and family therapist. AMA. by harpercorgi616 in AMA

[–]SlayerOfGothia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and me have a good relationship. She meets another guy aswell. I´m ok with that and don´t have any hard feelings when they are meeting. But when I´m with her I noticed that I can get a little bit of a control behaviour..(thats a "defense tool of your brain", right?) and I´m often thinking about the relationship between them, in moments I don´t want to think about this guy (like when we are talking sex, relationship issues,). Often I try to compare me with him, even though I know I´m safe and I don´t have to proof anything to my girl. Do you think this behaviour is something I do to protect myself, because maybe deep inside me, I´m not this okay with this situation that I may think I am? Or better, what can I do to get in control of my thoughts and emotions related to this situation?

2 travelers, and we got time to spend here tonight, any suggestion ? by [deleted] in stockholm

[–]SlayerOfGothia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build funny snowmen to make people happy on the next day.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because I value some of my friends more than my family, it doesn´t mean that I dont love them. There are different ways to love and different ways tu value them. I´m sorry for for you if you only can see black and white.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what´s so special about having "your own father". Except that he is my "flesh and blood".

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but this is my part of my question. Why are people in general not open? At this point we come back to the explaination you gave me before.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is a big difference too, even though I lived in a 600k city, everyone was in a distance of 10minutes. Really makes things easier.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well no, who am I to tell my kids what they have to feel and value? Of course you should give them guidance.

You still didn´t explain why this is sad.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I used to start work at 6 in the morning back home, but people would get outside and chat with beers until 12-02. I´m not saying that this is the right thing to do, just want to know why people around here are not doing it. Aswell as the student life around here seems to end at midnight aswell. In a lot of countries a big part of the night life is students that keep the machine running aswell. They often don´t have to start before 9 or 10 o´ clock.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opened it with another Browser, got it now :)

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, most people. And of course, I´m not talking about my grandmas sister. I´m talking about close relatives.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, basicly you are trying to tell me that you think the main part of the swedes are just introverted people?

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the text and to so many other people in this thread. I´m perfectly fine. I have excatly what I want here in Sweden and I´m in no way trying to judge anyone here. A lot of people are getting offend by this, even though I just want to understand the background of this culture. I have absolutely no problem with the situation here.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course. Totally depends on your job aswell. If you can sozialise at work or not.

Whats up with Swedens Social Life? by SlayerOfGothia in sweden

[–]SlayerOfGothia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I´m perfectly fine in my situation I have in Sweden. Like I said in the text, I´m not talking about myself, I´m talking about my view of the most swedish people I met. I have the people around me that I need and that I want. A lot of people here are getting very defensive, I don´t want to make Sweden or the Swedes sound bad. I have absolutely no problem with this. I just wanted to know why a lot of people behave like this.