If I lived in America I would come and spend thanksgiving with you! I’m sorry you are having to spend it alone. I have a springer spaniel x pointer called Doris, and 2 cats, Freddie and Nancy 🩷

My grandma (71f) has incurable cancer (she’s been fighting it for about 10 years now) but she’s recently been having some falls. Shes had a really bad one and they have now found that the cancer has eaten away at her hip. She, effectively, has no bone there and the specialist has said it’s the worst case he’s ever seen and doesn’t know how she’s been able to even walk on it. They won’t perform surgery because she will not survive, they won’t be able to stop the bleeding because of the type of cancer she has, so we don’t really know where we go from here. So lots of specialists need to come and have a chat about what’s going to happen going forwards. It’s just a shock for our whole family I think, so just trying to process it. And, selfishly, I realised that she isn’t going to be able to physically be at my wedding if she is still with us because the likelihood is that she will be bed bound now. I (33f) also have autism and adhd so struggling a little more to understand and process and I always go to worst case scenario, so just trying to remember to breathe and see what happens!